Originally Posted by PDS1985:
“If I remember correctly Brian never connected with Sarah much at all before he died I can't remember much if Ivy connected with Sarah though.
I'm surprised Bethany hasn't asked much about her Grandfather Brian to Gail or even Martin (to Sarah).”
If my memory serves me right, Gail told Brian quite early on in her pregnancy with Sarah that he
might not be the father - and from that point onwards Brian was quite callous about "the kid", adamant that it was not his and that he wanted nothing to do with "it" or Gail. He actually told Gail that if she wanted them to stay together she would have to abort the baby, which she refused - leading to a memorable scene between Gail and Audrey on a park bench where Gail was telling Audrey that she was going to make it through as a single Mum however hard it might be (Helen Worth cited this as her favourite Gail scene for many years). Ian the other potential father proved more supportive during the pregnancy (after being informed of it by Audrey) but promptly upped sticks back to Oz once baby Sarah Lou's blood group proved he wasn't the father. Gail chose to keep this information to herself so for the first few months of Sarah Lou's life, Brian was completely uninvolved and still refusing to have anything to do with Gail or the baby. It was only through Ivy's dog-with-a-bone-like insistence that Sarah Lou must be Brian's and that Gail, Brian and the kids should remain together a a family that it was eventually revealed to Brian that he was indeed the father. Even after that he was not massively involved until some business about Brian trying to kidnap Nicky led to Gail and Brian getting back together and Brian finally being a father to both children.
So yes Brian never had the same connection with Sarah Lou that he had with Nicky; this was echoed in his final scenes with Gail where he yelled at her, "You're not taking my son!", with no mention of his daughter. Sarah in reality would have no memories of Brian to pass onto Bethany; the only father figure she knew was Martin (as opposed to Nicky who did remember Brian). The fact that Martin, who was always a good father and massively supportive of all three kids, has been erased from their lives and rarely mentioned in the last 10 years makes no sense outside of the offscreen reality that the actor left on bad terms with the producers, but that's another story.
Ivy on the other hand was always determined to be involved with Sarah Lou, whether she was Brian's or not (though she was always adamant that she
was) - she was the one waiting anxiously in the hospital waiting room when Gail was in labour, and thereonwards constantly pushing to prove that Sarah Lou was Brian's and to get Gail and Brian back together. She even baptised Sarah Lou in secret at her first birthday party!!
Originally Posted by KornerKabin:
“Brian's death itself seems really comical now, particularly with the garish disco lights in the background and Chris Quinten's quintessentially 80s perm/mullet that was already a decade out of date in 1989.”
And yet it sparked a huge debate at the time about violence on TV - how times have changed since!
What fascinates me is that the last chapter of Gail and Brian's marriage was really carried by Gail and Ivy. I guess Chris had taken time out to start setting up his new life in the States and only came back to film his swansong, but as a result we got some really powerful Lynne Perrie/Helen Worth scenes where Ivy wore Gail down into admitting that she didn't love Brian any more, breaking poor Ivy's heart. And yes, Chris was never going to win any acting awards but he was adequate for the part he played and I really enjoyed the very well-written final Gail and Brian scenes where they thrashed out the state of their crumbling marriage.
Timing wise, Chris couldn't have picked a better moment to ask for time out (from a dramatic perspective rather than his own perspective obviously). The Tilsleys had been the dramatic backbone of the show throughout the 80s, and wonderfully believable, helped by the in-laws Ivy, Bert, Audrey and Alf - yet times were changing, the show was going new places, and Gail had already been outgrowing Brian as a strong, independent character in her own right for some time. The timing just clicked and paved the way for the creation of the Platts, who would become a major part of the show's dramatic backbone for the next ten years.
I always found that there was a very interesting symettry in the recruitment several years later of Adam Rickett to play Brian's son on the same basis as Chris Quentin had been recruited (looks over acting talent), and then having him play out a 90s take on Ivy/Brian/Gail in the form of Gail/Nick/Leanne.