Whether she has learned by example or not, it doesn't alter her being immature, too immature for the kind of relationship she thinks she is ready for.
Even leaving aside the age gap, if her reaction to somebody talking to her boyfriend, even if they are being flirtatious is to chuck a drink over them, any relationship is doomed anyway. Nobody in their right mind would put up with that kind of possessiveness and displays of temper from a partner long term. Yes, i know she was already upset and over wrought but that isn't a good enough reason and the fact that she still wasn't prepared to apoolgise to the woman involved afterwards - well. Tyler was not wearing a sign saying "property of Piper", if he had a wedding ring on then maybe she'd have more of a point but why shouldn't a woman start talking, or even flirting with an attractive man sitting alone in a bar and for all she knows is unattached. It was up to Tyler to say "just to let you know, i have a girlfriend, this is just a chat, not leading anywhere" if he wasn't interested. People get hit on, even after marriage - it's happened to me, I know it's happened to my husband - it is up to the involved person to close it down.
Even the sex thing, that she knew the rules of Terese agreeing to them going to the formal but was not intending to keep to them, even for just one night, shows how little respect she has for everybody involved - Terese, Brad, the staff who set up the rules for the formal (ie not leaving the premises), even Tyler because he is the one that would be blamed for seducing her had they been caught. Because he is the adult and she is barely legal.
It's not fair that he is being treated as a sleaze but it is kind of inevitable when he is so much older than her. Terese doesn't know that Piper filmed that 'private' vlog (in her night clothes no less) off her own back and he actually told her that he wasn't sure she should have done so after receiving it. Or that he has been telling her sneaking around is out of the question. Or that he was trying to tell piper that sex wouldn't be happening that night but in a way that she wouldn't get hurt or have her standard (childish) response of "why are you punishing me, why do you hate me". That very mentality, that if you don't get your own way, if somebody says no to you, it must mean they hate you is more in line with a 6 year old than a 16 year old if you ask me.
I'm pleased that Mark told Brad to look to his daughter rather than attacking Tyler though because it has ALL come from her.
Yes Terese reacted badly when Brad left her but I do have more sympathy for somebody acting out when their husband of 20 years walks out on them for a woman who has professed to be a friend and she did back down pretty quickly. It's not excusing it but she didn't go through with trying to destroy Harolds, didn't make her children choose between her and Brad or anything like that. All in all, she was pretty civilized about the situation, internalizing it if anything.
For all that, not keen on Elly. She clearly is just a natural flirt but also clearly doesn't mind using it to manipulate men or upsetting people. Mark caving over the parking bays was crap - yes he could move the signs but why should he? Why couldn't she park in one of the 3 bays that weren't marked 'reserved'? I assume they were slightly further away from the complex so she's making all these dressed up kids, who have paid (or their parents have) for a limo to walk further on "the night of their life'.
A little thing but a clear indication that she is selfish.
Oh Xanthe. She needs to learn a lesson about borrowing (aka stealing) money - you'd think she'd have learnt after the Tom Quill fiasco so can't really feel too sorry for her getting into this mess with the dress - golden rule, never hire or borrow a dress if you can't afford to pay the full price if it gets damaged - my friend learnt that the hard way with her wedding dress which she'd hired being stained irrevocably. But i don't think Piper should get away with it either - she should be made to pay for at least some of it - might make her think twice before giving into a fit of temper next time. She does these impulsive, spiteful things (like the 'advert' and nearly ruining Sonya's Mayoral campaign) and always gets away with it.
And breathe.....
Even leaving aside the age gap, if her reaction to somebody talking to her boyfriend, even if they are being flirtatious is to chuck a drink over them, any relationship is doomed anyway. Nobody in their right mind would put up with that kind of possessiveness and displays of temper from a partner long term. Yes, i know she was already upset and over wrought but that isn't a good enough reason and the fact that she still wasn't prepared to apoolgise to the woman involved afterwards - well. Tyler was not wearing a sign saying "property of Piper", if he had a wedding ring on then maybe she'd have more of a point but why shouldn't a woman start talking, or even flirting with an attractive man sitting alone in a bar and for all she knows is unattached. It was up to Tyler to say "just to let you know, i have a girlfriend, this is just a chat, not leading anywhere" if he wasn't interested. People get hit on, even after marriage - it's happened to me, I know it's happened to my husband - it is up to the involved person to close it down.
Even the sex thing, that she knew the rules of Terese agreeing to them going to the formal but was not intending to keep to them, even for just one night, shows how little respect she has for everybody involved - Terese, Brad, the staff who set up the rules for the formal (ie not leaving the premises), even Tyler because he is the one that would be blamed for seducing her had they been caught. Because he is the adult and she is barely legal.
It's not fair that he is being treated as a sleaze but it is kind of inevitable when he is so much older than her. Terese doesn't know that Piper filmed that 'private' vlog (in her night clothes no less) off her own back and he actually told her that he wasn't sure she should have done so after receiving it. Or that he has been telling her sneaking around is out of the question. Or that he was trying to tell piper that sex wouldn't be happening that night but in a way that she wouldn't get hurt or have her standard (childish) response of "why are you punishing me, why do you hate me". That very mentality, that if you don't get your own way, if somebody says no to you, it must mean they hate you is more in line with a 6 year old than a 16 year old if you ask me.
I'm pleased that Mark told Brad to look to his daughter rather than attacking Tyler though because it has ALL come from her.
Yes Terese reacted badly when Brad left her but I do have more sympathy for somebody acting out when their husband of 20 years walks out on them for a woman who has professed to be a friend and she did back down pretty quickly. It's not excusing it but she didn't go through with trying to destroy Harolds, didn't make her children choose between her and Brad or anything like that. All in all, she was pretty civilized about the situation, internalizing it if anything.
For all that, not keen on Elly. She clearly is just a natural flirt but also clearly doesn't mind using it to manipulate men or upsetting people. Mark caving over the parking bays was crap - yes he could move the signs but why should he? Why couldn't she park in one of the 3 bays that weren't marked 'reserved'? I assume they were slightly further away from the complex so she's making all these dressed up kids, who have paid (or their parents have) for a limo to walk further on "the night of their life'.
A little thing but a clear indication that she is selfish.
Oh Xanthe. She needs to learn a lesson about borrowing (aka stealing) money - you'd think she'd have learnt after the Tom Quill fiasco so can't really feel too sorry for her getting into this mess with the dress - golden rule, never hire or borrow a dress if you can't afford to pay the full price if it gets damaged - my friend learnt that the hard way with her wedding dress which she'd hired being stained irrevocably. But i don't think Piper should get away with it either - she should be made to pay for at least some of it - might make her think twice before giving into a fit of temper next time. She does these impulsive, spiteful things (like the 'advert' and nearly ruining Sonya's Mayoral campaign) and always gets away with it.
And breathe.....




I know, I sound old but it is meant to be a formal...!
Piper hasn't exactly done anything to show she is mature and responsible though. Especially her tantrum with Elly. The "Feel free to go with skanky ho" line made me laugh.
Elly, Amy and Steph could be a good friendship group if done right.
