Originally Posted by Jimmy Skitz:
“it's Australia the same as here in there legally she can leave home and they can do nothing about it? If so they want to be thankful that Tyler is too sensible to elope like Chas wanted to do, oh and by the way who rescued her there? Tyler.
Whilst they may have a problem with the age gap they know Tyler and know he is fundamentally a decent lad”
You can't get married at 16 or 17 without parental consent. You also can't join the Army without Parental consent.
I presume the Law is structured that way because they accept that people do mature at different times - some 16 year olds will be ready for it, some will not so the authorities leave it in the hands of the parents to decide.
It's one of the things i've been referring to all along re they 'grey' area of legality for sexual relationships and dating at that age - basically that whilst they are not deemed children, they are not yet fully adults either re making their own decisions.
I assume that Piper had a guardian when she was in Canada - was placed with a family or it might even have been a boarding school type situation. I very much doubt she was just allowed to run wild, in fact if it is anything like anybody i know that has lived on site or in a 'Halls' type scenario for a School, she's going to have less freedom than at home.
Tyler isn't the problem. Brad and Teresehave accepted that he seems sensible and caring after talking to him one to one, hence them deciding to let him take Piper to the formal. But equally, what is Terese supposed to make of discovering that he has been receiving suggestive 'private' vlog from piper? Or that he seemed to be saying no to sex just because he couldn't see how to manage it practically at the formal, rather than because it was betraying the agreement made? Not to mention the fact that he's only been around a year and snogged (and more) with both of Piper's sisters already?
I do feel sorry for Tyler, he is a nice lad who has been trying to do the right thing but Piper lies and manipulates and uses emotional blackmail so he is being compromised. Sorry, but I'm nor sure his will power would have been up to resisting her if she had been able to manage 'alone' time with him as clearly he does fancy her and also he never wants to hurt her feelings and you can bet she'd have pulled the old "don't you want me, I wanted tonight to be perfect and it's being spoilt" lines.
She did look lovely in the jump suit and i do agree she is a good actress.
ETA. Just seen you didn't mean marriage but somebody else has also mentioned it.
I'm not actually sure about the legality of leaving home at 16 either. I think social Services might need to be made aware (i think people taken into Care remain Wards of the Crown until they are 18 and again a Case worker would have to sign off marriage plans, joining the Armed forces etc) and review new living arrangements. Also things like School, who would be deemed to have parental responsibility for any discipline problems?
But, as mentioned, it isn't just her age. Some 16 year olds are mature enough for a relationship, even for marriage and becoming parents themselves. But Piper clearly isn't as she demonstrates again and again and unfortunately, that means Tyler being damned by her actions as well.