I feel quite sorry for Xanthe. Behind the front, she is clearly a very insecure girl who just wants to be wanted, liked, loved.
We might see it as just a silly little party and a stupid reason to make as big a decision as losing her virginity to somebody she barely knows and has admitted she isn't that in to. But, that party and turning 16 means a lot to her, even her best friend didn't turn (understandably as Terese does need to take precedence at the moment but it probably still hurt Xanthe) and she is convinced the boy she really does like isn't interested. She probably feels that she isn't 'good enough' to ever have a boy thta she really likes to like her back so she is settling for what she canget and that could become a pattern which repeats her whole life. It does for some girls who turn to sex quite young as they believe it is the only way anybody will ever pay them any attention.
If she had more confidence, she wouldn't be doing it.
Yes, the explosion investigation and John Doe is really dragging. Why can't Paige just accept that he doesn't feel able/safe to start a relationship when he doesn't know who he is. That is perfectly reasonable.
We might see it as just a silly little party and a stupid reason to make as big a decision as losing her virginity to somebody she barely knows and has admitted she isn't that in to. But, that party and turning 16 means a lot to her, even her best friend didn't turn (understandably as Terese does need to take precedence at the moment but it probably still hurt Xanthe) and she is convinced the boy she really does like isn't interested. She probably feels that she isn't 'good enough' to ever have a boy thta she really likes to like her back so she is settling for what she canget and that could become a pattern which repeats her whole life. It does for some girls who turn to sex quite young as they believe it is the only way anybody will ever pay them any attention.
If she had more confidence, she wouldn't be doing it.
Yes, the explosion investigation and John Doe is really dragging. Why can't Paige just accept that he doesn't feel able/safe to start a relationship when he doesn't know who he is. That is perfectly reasonable.



