Originally Posted by Deschanel:
“Jack bares some of the responsibility because he knew his motivations could be misinterpreted by Paige. All he had to do was remind her that the bible sessions and walking her home didn't mean anything more than him trying to teach her and being chivalrous. I think his own feelings slightly clouded his judgement, which stopped him from seeing the way she looked at him.
When Paige asked about learning about the bible, I do believe she wanted to try to be friends with him by understanding his faith, but the more time he spent with her outside of the sessions, going out of his way to be her personal security guard, it makes sense that Paige would mis-read into his actions and behaviour. I think her outburst was justified. I think Jack should have been more open (not about the stalker stuff), all of this could have been avoided.”
“Jack bares some of the responsibility because he knew his motivations could be misinterpreted by Paige. All he had to do was remind her that the bible sessions and walking her home didn't mean anything more than him trying to teach her and being chivalrous. I think his own feelings slightly clouded his judgement, which stopped him from seeing the way she looked at him.
When Paige asked about learning about the bible, I do believe she wanted to try to be friends with him by understanding his faith, but the more time he spent with her outside of the sessions, going out of his way to be her personal security guard, it makes sense that Paige would mis-read into his actions and behaviour. I think her outburst was justified. I think Jack should have been more open (not about the stalker stuff), all of this could have been avoided.”
Unless he actually took her at her word that she wanted to learn about his faith and now only wanted to build a friendship? If she was genuine in that as you state, surely constantly reminding her that friendship was all it could be was unnecessary and if she still had feelings, even cruel? Plus of course, her reaction might have been to stop the lessons so that he could no longer keep her safe.
He really was between the devi and the deep blue sea here, even if he was aware of the emotional problems it might cause Paige - and he might not have been if he took her at her word about having accepted the situation and just wanting to learn about religion and be friends.
I understand why Paige is upset, of course i do. We've all had feelings for somebody that either didn't or couldn't return them in the form we wanted. Not usually a Priiiest but because they are married or similar. I do also understand how she misinterpreted it.
But I do also think that she sees what she wants to see and is inherently selfish and that Jack really didn't have any other option but to behave as he did and her inability or unwillingness to see that, to only see it as him hurting her, is aggravating.
Again, really what else could he do to keep her safe without breaking the sacrament of Confession?
And why should his actions indicating that he cares or even loves her be leading her on? He has never denied that he loves her, that he enjoys being with her but has also made it clear that he can't be with her in that way due to his vocation. His actions over the last week didn't contradict that.
Why should somebody have to spell out that they are just acting as a Priest to a Parishioner or a friend, which includes seeing somebody home when the Neighbourhood is being targeted. Most people that aren't as selfish, delusional and vain as Paige (believing her charms are so great she can get any man, even when 'competeting' with God) would recognise that.



