Originally Posted by Avid Eighties:
“Not sure Ursula but I watched the documentary and I don't share MouMouLand's opinion that Del was a narcissistic prawn, he came across as polite, thoughtful and also pretty sad, it seemed like he had not really gotten over her, must have been an intense relationship, all that amazing music and all the hard work that must have gone into creating it.”
Yes.
I think Del can come across as quite cocky & overconfident certainly, more than narcissistic, but then considering he has worked with probably the best female singer songwriter in the land for years, his ego must be pretty big. I hope he has gotten over her by now. He is certainly very loyal to Kate, as are a lot of musicians who have worked with her. I can imagine her being greatly respected.
Originally Posted by Supratad:
“Good god yes, the sense of loss must be awful. It's clear from the songs on the Red Shoes that there was a lot of pain on both sides. We can only ever speculate as it's not something she would ever disclose, but I often think that she spent so long with Del and didn't have a child, only to have Bertie fairly quickly by comparison with Danny Mcintosh, that this might have a been a big factor. Biological issues or just choice, who knows.
I've read a description from another musician's viewpoint of their time in the studio and how she started to spend more time with Danny, learning guitar and therefore how this person telling the story said it was obvious to all what was happening and what was going to happen.
Obviously as a huge KB fan I'm biased in my appreciation of her, but I also recall a musician, from way back in the 70's/80's removing himself from the studio sessions because if he stayed near her any longer, he was going to fall in love and destroy his own relationship. I can understand that.”
Yes you are probably right here. We will never really know exactly - as Kate comes across as a very private person.
I also read about that musician too & to be honest am surprised it hasn't happened to a lot more musicians in her circle. There is definitely much loyalty & professionalism between Kate and her band.