Originally Posted by fatskia:
“I'm with you on that.
One thing I have learned in life is that I have potentially a lot of control over whether I get upset or how much I get upset.
I tend to view most things - especially opinions, as shades of grey. Often no-one is right or wrong, just have different opinions.
When someone disagrees with me, I hope I give consideration to whether they may have a point and if what they say is something I don't agree with, then I either might just let them have their opinion or give my counter-point of view.
I don't get upset much because I tend not to take things personally - not because it's not in my nature - but if I don't think the other argument convinces me, then I give it less value, and that means it's less likely to upset me.
I just put that out there as it is something I have found useful in life.
On a Forum (like the main forum on here), it's important to attack the argument and not the person. On the appreciation thread, its good that we all appreciate in different ways and to different levels, and even more important to not get personal about things.
When you consider the huge volume of communication in this thread, I think it has been overwhelmingly a good place to visit and I hope it will be seen in that light, always.”
As usual, a measured response from you! (Now don't get bumptious, will you ?

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And before the subject (I hope) fades away, I have lists here of those contributors to the words/addendum list, and job holders. I regret not having a list of video/pics/reports/review contributors, but you all know who you are.
I just hope everyone will at least drop in from time to time from their lurking post.
Jayctionary contributors
ahouch, Aliona Kavanagh, amaluna, angstfree, Ano, beesknees, Bionic Bard, BMLisa, bubble_wrap, callmepitstop, CatO9Tales, catspaw, celloplayer, danceagogo, dancingfosse, DeiseDays, Delight, fatskia, Fred., fridgesoup, Gill P, hannah 01., hannah 01., isih, janetshep, JaxMax, jayfan, jayspotting, Jelly_L, jnb_7, judgypants, karinsmulders, kmelly, L_duncan, Lindy_Loue, Little Bubble, Little Miss Ahouch, LolaTheCat, mantaray_1, mcguiness27, nelliek, nos lowen, Olivia_P, Polly-T, Rafferty cat, redsfan, Rocknroll, rosedroplet, Sabbatical, sam67jane, Sammi42, speedtrap, spreeathen, stelladog, Strictly Red, Tinkerbell52, Toasted Toad, Tsuntsu bird
Job holders
ahouch, Amaluna, Arnostae, bees_knees, BionicBard, bubble_wrap, callmepitstop, CatO9Tales, celloplayer, Chewbacca, danceagogo, dancingfosse, DeiseDays, Delight, dufnut, floppers, Fred the Real Dog, Fred., fridgesoup, Gill P, Gilly-O, hannah 01., isih, Jalionistas, James Mcguiness, janetshep, jayfan, Jelly_L, jnb_7, JuliePB, karinsmulders, KorkyTheCat, Lindy_Loue, Little Miss ahouch, Lola the cat, marinamau, Marmitey, maryhall1, Mcguiness27, Mrs Finkelstein, nelliek, nos lowen, Polly-T, RaffertyCat, rosaportalc, rosedroplet, sam67jane, sammi42, sky_lark, snippy, Snookey, speedtrap, spreeathen, star89, stelladog, stitch and twitch, StrictlyRed, The Ghost, Tinkerbell52, Toasted Toad, Tsuntsu bird, Whiffle_09