I think it's fair to say that most people posting here do so because they loved watching Jay and Aliona dance together, miss them dreadfully, but are now either engaged in supporting Jay in his wonderful new musical theatre career, which he has worked so hard for, or still very interested in Strictly and enjoy discussing the ups and downs of this series, maybe wishing we could have our favourite couple back to show them how it should be done.
From my own point of view it has been a wonderful place to escape to and forget those challenges in real life that sometimes floor us, sometimes seem impossible to surmount, and sometimes just make you want to scream 'why'? But watching Jay in particular has been an inspiration, he's a stoical, engaging, hardworking and thoroughly likeable guy and I've found myself more than once this year thinking how he'd react to something that's happened. And it would be with courage, humour and great consideration for his fellow human beings. Not a bad example to follow.