Hi All.

I've looked at a couple of threads where Laura has been called a Slut, and people saying 'well if she were a Man it would be accepted blah blah'

In my opinion Women ARE different than Men, simple as that.

How many people here would think it was ok for their own Sister, or even Mum to go out having Sex with loads of different people? Not many I bet!

I'll probably be accused of being some kind of Sexist for this attitude, but I can't help thinking that Women SHOULD act differently than Men. As a Man myself, I'd HATE it if a Woman I was with had been walloped by loads of blokes. I think most blokes are the same!

Sorry!

But it would be okay for a man to 'wallop' lots of women, would it?

And if men are allowed to 'wallop' and women aren't, does this mean all men should be walloping each other and you don't accept heterosexual sex until marriage/long-term commitment?

Uh oh.

So you expect a girlfriend/wife to be whiter than white and a Virgin when you meet but how do you think SHE would feel knowing that you've been sticking it in every hole you can find?

Ridiculous thread.

Speaking as a woman who hasn't been 'walloped' (what charming terminology) by loads of different men, my own personal choice, I might add, I do find the hypocrisy stunning.

Adult human beings should be free to do what the heck they want if it's legal and not hurting anyone else, regardless of what bits are between their legs. It's their choice and their business.

I'm not a fan of Laura's but that's entirely based on her belief that she can have any man she wants, I personally doubt that. She is just one of those types that grinds my gears lol.

I wouldn't think it was ok for any female or male member of my family to do.

I do think both should be judged the same and IMO for both genders I don't think they should sleep around.

I think Jim Jefferies sums it up best, lol - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6I7Lnwkev0

...OR ELSE!!

why didn't you just post this as a reply in one of those posts? your arrogance is showing in the fact that you think your opinion is deserving of it's own thread.

Well said.
Who bloody cares what people get up to

It bothers most men but we are not allowed to talk about it. We normally get shouted down over it but what man wants to sign his life away to someone who has put it about and is that easy?

Instead we will continue as a race to put our fingers in our ears and pretend men and women are exactly the same with the same sexual opportunities as each other.

Hahahahahah LOL - Glad you said sorry there.

What does that mean, exactly? The same sexual opportunities?

Bit in bold - as a woman, am I allowed to be bothered by how many sexual partners a man has had?

Just to let you know - once he has a clean bill of health STD wise, I'm not.

But... They do have the same sexual opportunities as each other don't they? That's what your bothered about isn't it?

Quite.

Oh blimey, OP - have I just stepped back in time?

And people wonder why the get pulled up, when they have attitudes toward women like this?!

So it's okay for men to 'wallop' as many women as they want, just not the other way round. I despair sometimes, I really do!!

So if all women remained whiter than white what would you men be walloping?

If women abstain then the men wouldn't be able to have as many women as they wanted would they.

I'm interested to know who you think you would be walloping if all women followed your idea of how they should behave. Or did you not think that much about it.

Indeed.

A) WOMEN must only have sex within the boundaries of a relationship.
B) MEN are permitted to have sex without it being within a relationship.

If both statements are true then who are the men in B having sex with? Other men presumably, because all other options are shut down by A.

Its like living in the 1950s on here.

A woman walks into a room of 100 men and announces she is up for it. 90+ men will have sex with her.

A man walks into a room of 100 women and announces he is up for it. If 1 or 2 are prepared to do it he has done extremely well.

It's not something that bothers me, it's just a fact of human nature. I don't know why we are so afraid of the truth.

Men and women should do whatever they feel free to do. It doesn't mean that a man can't feel completely put off by a woman who sleeps around. Especially with high divorce rates and how often men are stung in terms of child access and finances. Why would any man not be scared off by a woman who does sleep around? It's all common sense and it's nothing to do with sexism or being old fashioned

I misunderstood! Apologies... So in fact the issue you think people pretend doesn't exist is that it's EASIER for women to find a sexual partner than men? I see. Well if it doesn't bother you and it's a fact of life then alls good I suppose.

I think it's OK......but then i'm a woman and I know that we love shagging

I think you and the OP are pretending to have brains. Are you allowed out without supervision?

None that would worry about their own performance in bed being compared unfavorably with a lot of other men. A woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it can be very intimidating for a man, but that's his problem.