Originally Posted by 2bad:
“If J was the caring guy he made out he was on CBB and he stated on the show he wanted kids, when he found out his recent ex was pregnant surely he or any guy for that matter who had a shred of decency would go and see her or offer support in some way?
He is also still infatuated with her, he is pictured with girls who resemble S (one just last night on snapchat), even some of his recent tattoos resemble her. He is copying her with the reading of the future and the dog face pics and even the weight loss now. If he wasn't bothered why is he trying to get her to react?”
I don't agree with any of that actually , soz .
He said all the things she wanted to hear to get (successfully as it happens) into her knickers . He's a player, that's what players do . Promise the world till they achieve their needs . More fool her for cheating on mySam with a bloke she knew nothing about . He went along for the ride, no sexual pun intended , and he nodded and agreed with all her fantasies of the house with the white picket fence and the babies waving to daddy as he arrives home from another day at the office clutching flowers for mommy and new shoes for baby . Look at him for goodness sake

. That fantasy was never going to come true, like ever . She's a mug and I've no sympathy because he did to her what she did to mySam so it was/is karma in action . If a baby appears then that was her choice since it's her body carrying it and she will be the ultimate carer for it . Maybe, just maybe, if she wasn't playing 'hide the scan' games with him and ranting and taunting him on SM he might have come to heel . But she's not known for truthfulness so I'm not surprised at the general disbelief (him included) that there is a baby anyway .
As for saying he's still infatuated with her ?



There really aren't enough smileys to deal with that fantasy .
That dog app is fashionable, as is the funny psychic app . Everyone is using them . There is no logic in saying that because he has used a common trendy app that she has used , that that means he hearts her totally forever more

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The tatts and the pretty girls look nothing like her, other than that they are females with two eyes, a nose and a mouth .
In the end , yes he's a player, yes she's a mug , but I can't condemn anyone (male or female) for walking away from a toxic relationship that was deteriorating rapidly into alleged violence (whichever partner was guilty).
In my opinion he finally did the right thing and if she stops playing games over her alleged pregnancy he might just prove to be a good dad if the DNA tests prove him to be the father .But I doubt she'll let him because she is too vengeful, look at her trashing mySam when the guy did
nothing to deserve it . Just so she could justify hopping into bed with a stranger just days after being introduced .
I bet mySam has been looking pretty damned good in her wobbly head as she sits watching soppy movies all alone these days . Ah well, he upgraded and is very happy, so someone came out of the mess well eventually . Nice to see the good guy win the pretty young girl and ride off happily into the sunset leaving all the old crap and chaos of a cheating ex behind him .