A psychoanalyst would be spot on then Bangle .
That pic is a dead giveaway . That's how she wants to be and be seen being .
For all her banging on about the house and white picket fence and babies she is not ready to sit at home all day eating scouse and gherkins and watching soppy movies while a babby uses her innards as a punch bag . The novelty wears off PDQ .

Night all! Got to get a sleep!

aha that's it then. JIMBOB's f*******d What does she think ? ......the baby's going to tweet her back ? If she's going to be a mum, time to grow up a bit & stop talking sh*te

reality has hit now , she wanted a puppy to look after, now she's gone the whole hog having a baby , then after the elation has worn off , reality will kick in she's a single mum with a really emotionally tough time of it. Not ideal, but she's not the first. She should be going out enjoying herself and just doing her own thing.Now she's going to have to consider not putting herself first, gonna be so hard for her of all people.

i think that's what she's done. Then NHS for the rest

She can't get him into Court for maintenance payments between Liverpool and Dublin, no jurisdication, so he can do a runner. Also if he wanted to take her to Court to get access he can't do it from Dublin. as far as i know. She'll know he may not be able to afford all of that too

She said the psychic said she was having a girl. haha

>THIS

Can understand her excitement I was same as all mums are we the ones feel the effects and babba moving dad doesn't - so it's real for us before its real for them. Plus I see more than 1 dad in my 50 ye experience take off scared but man up when their kids born. They are just petrified of their responsibility to a defenceless baby (not that us new mums Aren't the same)

so can I pand.

I also think we need to aknowledge that pregnancy can cause the most profound changes on some women who you could never imagine being any different.

I once worked with a girl who I considered to have, let's say, emotional and mental limitations. she was 25 but looked and acted about 15. she was sly, inappropriate, immature, could be downright nasty and always wanted things her way.
she eventually left much to my relief.
a few months later I heard she was pregnant and I feared for that child. god knows what kind of a mother shed make, I thought.

after she had the baby, I bumped into her. she was like a different person. grown up over night. still scatty and a bit irritating - not suggesting she had a personality transplant- but her child was the centre of her world. she was a good mother.
then she had another. she dealt with it amazingly.

I would definitely say motherhood was the making of that girl.

Don't think he will do any of that before he gets a DNA test. I would advise him to get one, I just don't trust her.

we need to remember his whole basis for suspecting the baby isn't his- the period she has after they split.

he assumed she must have got pregnant after that. if she's just had a 12 week scan that obviously disproves that.

I would say he has no basis in believing it's not his at all.

Ooh, I've always wanted one of those too Tess - maybe we could do a time-share with it. I wouldn't want to push my luck by hanging two from the beams in here!

That jar of crunchie spread is long gone, we've had Cadbury Caramel spread since then! This week we've just got Lidl own swirly white and milk choc spread.
I really don't think I would like dairylea on rich tea though!

I suppose dairy Lee on ritz crackers would be nice, if you liked dairy Lee - which I don't! but then idea is nice!

as for choc spread on rich teas- oh my god. I could eat the whole packet and the whole jar in one sitting. a dangerous place to go for me.

Dairylea on Ritz crackers - om nom! I have to get the kids to hide the chocolate spread from me, I can't be trusted! The most nomaliscious spread was the lotus biscoff one - OMG!

how about one of these cool hanging egg seats?! you could both climb into that - is big enough!

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it's at times like this when I'm glad I live on my own, because shopping for food for other people would be lethal. I'd eat it all

as it is, I only buy stuff in as and when I need it. the only stuff I keep in all the time is fruit and veg!

oooo they are discussing 'hall passes' and open relationships on This Morning.

Yes, we could all share it Shoes off though.

I got my biscuits mixed up ,- it's Dairylea on digestives spangly
yum

I have one of those , for one though - , it's open at the front more though, it's bit tricky drinking tea though and it takes up bit of space on it's stand , large at based , it's better if they're hanging from a ceiling beam really.

yummy
i fancy that now

All of the above must be true as makes sense Pande, so i can understand Jimbob feeling very distant from the realisation of it all, and probably crapping himself at whats ahead , fighting it mentally but he'll have to reconcile at some point .

Can you just sit in it, jack, like a little pod and swing round about?

You can't live by fruit and veg alone, mel .