Originally Posted by brouhaha:
“Sorry, I just despise that term, particularly when it's lazily misused as a synonym for "gay", or increasingly "transgender", when these words do not mean the same thing, sexual orientation and gender identity being totally different things. I personally believe the misuse of this acronym (and its various, increasingly absurd permutations), while no doubt well-intentioned, actually does more harm than good as it serves to reinforce old prejudices about what it means to be homosexual or transgender. I repeat: they are not the same.
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Not getting at the OP, as the term is used in the original tweet from Patrick Ness but, really, what on earth is the term "an LGBT character" supposed to mean? It's meaningless.
By the way, I happen to be a gay man, should anyone think my sexuality is somehow relevant to my opinion here”
I used to question why transgender was included in this acronym because it is an issue of gender identity rather than sexual identity - and the two are very distinct. But then again, homosexuality and bisexuality are very distinct and it never meant that bisexual people didn't have to put up with being referred to as gay all the time. As a bisexual person I've had first-hand experience with that - even from my open-minded friends who consider it fair game to refer to me as 'kind of gay'.
It does seem an issue of very trivial semantics, and personally it doesn't bother or offend me heavily. But the acronym doesn't imply a collective sense of identity, it's intended to imply a collective sense of struggle and community.
It derives from a time before sexual and gender identity were seen as so distinct, and so people who were lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender endured very similar struggles. They suffered the same stigmatisation, and indeed the same misuse of their identities which were considered synonymous with eachother.
Any confidently gay person knows that when you're stigmatised by society (and this shooting in Orlando proves that even in the liberal western world of today there is still an aspect of 'us and them' in the public attitude amongst enough dangerous people to make this still relevant) for this one aspect of your identity then you own the hell out of it. You don't have pride in being gay per se, you have pride in overcoming and enduring ongoing struggle by owning your identity with your head held high. The same is true for lesbians, bisexual people and transgender people. And whilst it's an issue of semantics, they too have every right to embrace and have pride in their identity. The LGBT acronym puts them on the map. It may be outdated in some respects, sexuality is something I consider personally to be fluid (as even Doctor Who liberally suggests will be something we all come to realise - hopefully sooner than the 51st Century) and more suited to a spectrum than a bunch of labels.
Admittedly I don't think labels are inherently bad. It can feel satisfying to belong to a sense of community. As a bisexual person I have no shame in identifying as 'LGBT' because any one of those things is fine by me, and I know that the people who identify as any of those things has endured the same kind of marginalisation, or stigma. It's that struggle that binds the four, and creates a sense of community. And without it, bisexual people just get lumped in with the 'gay' description, and transgender people face more erasure still. In its own way, whilst it panders to the idea of labels and puts an emphasis on them, it also helps to break down the rigid 'gay or straight' ideology. It takes us a step closer to realising that 'sexuality is a spectrum'. More recently it's being understood and accepted that 'gender identity is a spectrum' too in its own respect.
Some people have tried repeatedly to expand upon LGBT...there's LGBTQ, there's LGBTQI, LGBTQIA and several more than try to add yet further labels. They never take off and personally I think that's actually progress. Because it hits a point where you realise there's too many different labels and boxes, and too much pigeonholing and suddenly this concept of categorisation just doesn't work anymore. The reason these extensions don't take off isn't because people refuse to accept there's more than the current options, it's because they realise it's a spectrum rather than something to be an endless list of options to choose from.
We want to work towards people just being able to be themselves, love who they want and be who they want, without having to tick boxes but also being entitled to a word that befits their identity? Then LGBT is the decent starting point - covering bases of sexuality and gender identity without going overboard. Showcasing that there's more than just gay or straight options, and insisting that it's not such a black and white picture. It's enabled minorities other than gay and lesbian people to recognise their own identity and that's personally something I am very grateful for - even if once again it is only an issue of trivial semantics.