Originally Posted by Theophile:
“I understand the Q is for queer, but what is the "I" for?
Also, if letters are going to keep being added, wouldn't something like "Alternative" or "other-oriented" work better? LGBTQI is quite a mouthful.”
The I stands for intersex - as in hermaphroditism.
One of my main points in an earlier post was that I can see both sides to the argument of adding letters - the inclusivity and open-mindedness of it, but also the nonsensical nature of having an endless slur of letters on the acronym that render it pointless.
The good side is that these different letters are proof that people are being able to identify how they wish and be accepted for it more and more - that's great. But that open-mindedness has jumped the gun in comparison to our ability to contemplate sexuality. We're still thinking in terms of labels, and putting everything in distinctly defined boxes. Labels aren't inherently a bad thing, but the notion that sexuality in fact works on more of a spectrum or a scale is quite new. The idea gender identity works the same way is even newer.
People who insist on adding these Q's and I's are applying new ways of thinking to old fashioned methods. It's going the wrong way about doing something good, whilst it's still admirable. We're actually hopefully working towards scaling back labels altogether. So a kid can say to his parent that he met a girl he likes at school, or he met a boy he likes at school...and there'll be no demand by the parent or by society to label that interest with a designated sexuality. He may go on to only ever like other boys, he may end up liking both, it might be a phase. He might grow up and identify as gay, but it's a label he won't have to constantly consider. He'll just like other guys and get on with it, not too worried about what it's called or what it means, or how it defines him.
The adding of other letters simply means more boxes, more minorities. I appreciate what labels are for, and there's an element of pride in having your sexuality and gender identity recognised on a societal scale when you have to deal with all the tribulations that your identity entails. But people are becoming a bit more flexible when it comes to dancing, and as that happens more there'll actually be less of a need for the letters that are currently there. Let alone all the others that are vying for recognition.