Originally Posted by chameleon212:
“There are different types of aggression. Andy is being VERY passive aggressive, Lateysha's reaction is understandable.
Huge respect to Alex for standing up to him so calmly.”
Alex didn't stand up to him and in fact he said:
"ALEX: Just because he wants to be in the final doesn’t mean he’s a game-player. Who here doesn’t want to be in the final?"
IIRC Alex even started that off with "fair point, just because..." but that is relying on my memory. Regardless, Alex didn't stand up to Andy and seemed to agree with that one point. It wasn't until Alex was alone with Jason that he said Andy was pompous or something like that. I disagree with the "pompous" bit.
you still didn't answer my question of "If you observed a pattern of behavior that you didn't agree with and it hurt your feelings and your friend's feelings, would you speak up?" but then you don't have to answer that question