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Most of the time people are this way for no reason. There is a lot of pain there behind her actions. I don't understand how people can't see that. Yes she is deeply unpleasant, but there is a lot of pain there causing it. People will disregard that though, because they simply do not like her.
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I'm exhibiting compassion based upon what I can see. But that does not mean her behavior is healthy, acceptable, or right. But as human beings, we do what we feel is right to avoid pain in the moment. Ir: her controlling, ways. No one is perfect.
After my last relationship with a damaged girl, if I encounter another one, there is NO WAY in hell I'll ever date another damaged girl. But I can still have compassion for these people, even if I refuse to allow them into my space. If yo allow them into your space, they will most likely do you harm. But Jackson is an absolute brute, he is ****ed up and toxic in a way that will reflect all of Georgina's toxic bhaviors and thoughts back to her, and then she will continue to slate men thinking that they are the issue, never really taking a look at herself and examining why she seems to attract the same guy over and over again. |
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What!!! what are you watching?? He has been nothing but patient and kind to her
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Why is that the first thing that people jump to? I will never tell anyone to excuse another person's behavior just because they are, in their own right, also a victim. But it is important in life to try to understand other people, and why they do what they do, or why they perceive the world the way that they do. It's like our prison systems, which are punishment based. There is little trying to understand and then trying to rehabilitate, or fix the system/enviroments that inspired the crimes in the first place. It is just about punishment because people are angry and want retribution. Then when these criminals are released into society they are worse off because they were not assisted in any way. They were punished, and then we moan when people re-offend.
Very rarely is it as simple as people just being bad eggs. There is a reason why people are the way they are - a reason why people engage in detrimental and damaging behaviors. But because people are often put off by the outward behavior, people just condemn, and that is where it starts and ends. |
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What!!! what are you watching?? He has been nothing but patient and kind to her
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And been controlling telling her she can't talk to Alex much and gets annoyed when she sits next to him on the sofa, and then yet flirts with Evelyn behind her back.
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If a man was treating a woman this way, this thread wouldn't exist. He would be villified, not excused.
The only person who came close to Georgina's treatment of Jackson was Stephen to Kimberly (telling her to get rid of her ex's photos etc.), but even he didn't constantly put her down, insult her, boss her around, forbid her from speaking to other men and speak ill of her backround when she wasn't around to hear. How anyone can even remotely justify Georgina's selfish, self-entitled and controlling behaviour is beyond me. |
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You need to apply what you said to yourself calling Jackson a brute. If he is a brute what does that make Georgina who has behaved far worse than he has in the house imo.
People seem to want to excuse the fact that Jackson and Georgina are complicit in the mess. It's not the sole fault of either one. Both are bringing out the worst in each other. |
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Quite simply she is a spoilt, self entitled brat who's favourite wine is "Daddy, I want a new pony!"
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If a man was treating a woman this way, this thread wouldn't exist. He would be villified, not excused.
The only person who came close to Georgina's treatment of Jackson was Stephen to Kimberly (telling her to get rid of her ex's photos etc.), but even he didn't constantly put her down, insult her, boss her around, forbid her from speaking to other men and speak ill of her backround when she wasn't around to hear. How anyone can even remotely justify Georgina's selfish, self-entitled and controlling behaviour is beyond me. |
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