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Andy : How is he being manipulative and sly?
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muggins14
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by KT_Dog:
“I briefly fell into the 'sly' camp the other day, following "whisper-gate", because when I watched it play out on the episode itself it did come heavily across that way - as things sometimes do when they rapidly pass before your eyes without pause.

I saw him sitting in the smoking area discussing with Lateysha the fact she DID think Jason was a game player because Charlie told her, but she couldn't say that during the task because of the fall out that would come from it... Andy himself then replied, "Yes that would be like throwing a hand grenade in the house"...

...he then went off to tell various other people what she'd really said, under the guise of asking their opinion on the matter, before confronting her again - orchestrating a row with her and the fellow whisperers - then heading off to Jason and declaring he now feels he should just tell him everything because 'the way they just spoke to me I owe them no loyalty' - so he told him that Lateysha had already said earlier he was a game player and that when she said it in the task she obviously meant it. He then stopped just short of confirming Charlie had been the one who put the idea in her head, despite Jason angling for the information and instead informed him he should go and talk to Lateysha.... And thus the handgrenade he himself had predicted had its pin pulled and Lateysha was left holding it. BOOM!!!!!

...see, even typing all that it now it seems incredibly machievellian. It was only because I went back and watched it in segments in order to do a transcript (it's knocking about somewhere on this board) that I came to the conclusion it was nothing of the sort. He had a slightly broader concern that was troubling him, based on the fact he himself had been misinterpreted due to Chinese whispers, that he was trying to bring to ahead. But when it all zips by on the screen and everyone shouting over the top of each other it kind of becomes lost and you just end up with the surface level interpretation, which is the one I've highlighted above.

I'm not quite sure what I'm saying here... I guess it's that I'm not surprised at all people think he's sly. I don't think he is, but I think he's spectacularly bad at getting his point across.”

That is EXACTLY how I feel about him, especially bib. I started out really liking Andy but that situation the other day had me wondering. I don't think he's sly - as you say he's truly bad at getting his point across, not helped by the fact that some of them don't really want to take the time to try and understand him.

I do think that one of Andy's biggest problems is boredom, to be honest! He really doesn't know what to do with himself and has very little stimulation in there, beyond the tasks and occasional chats with those he does get on with.

Jason really does seem to get him. I felt very sorry for him last night and, unlike some, do not think those tears were fake at all. That was some sobbing he was doing.
hisdogspot
30-06-2016
I find Andy a bit confusing

There are times when I'm not sure what it is , exactly, he is trying to achieve, and I can't decide if he is trying to be too clever or if he is actually a bit socially unaware

I'll give an example of when Andy baffled me - He was asked ( during a task ) to choose the "most boring" housemate ... not who he thought the public might find the most boring, but who HE found the most boring

And he chose Jason, pretty much his only friend in the house !

What the hell did he do that for ?
Wainy84
30-06-2016
You have to be manipulative and sly when you work for the BBC.
Angie_Plasty
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by hisdogspot:
“I find Andy a bit confusing

There are times when I'm not sure what it is , exactly, he is trying to achieve, and I can't decide if he is trying to be too clever or if he is actually a bit socially unaware

I'll give an example of when Andy baffled me - He was asked ( during a task ) to choose the "most boring" housemate ... not who he thought the public might find the most boring, but who HE found the most boring

And he chose Jason, pretty much his only friend in the house !

What the hell did he do that for ?”

No idea. There's been a few times when he's been contradictory or selective and I've been left scratching my head.

Makes him interesting though.
hisdogspot
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by Angie_Plasty:
“No idea. There's been a few times when he's been contradictory or selective and I've been left scratching my head.

Makes him interesting though.”

I'm getting to the point where it's more frustrating than interesting

For instance, when he nominated Evelyn

He knows the ones who have 'got it in for him' are the bedroom whispering crew lead by Latysha and her generals Sam and Ryan , all of whom flew at him when he confronted them ... yet it's Evelyn he wants out of the house ?

I find myself shaking my head and thinking, what the hell are you doing man ?
Vicky8675309
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by hisdogspot:
“I find Andy a bit confusing

There are times when I'm not sure what it is , exactly, he is trying to achieve, and I can't decide if he is trying to be too clever or if he is actually a bit socially unaware

I'll give an example of when Andy baffled me - He was asked ( during a task ) to choose the "most boring" housemate ... not who he thought the public might find the most boring, but who HE found the most boring

And he chose Jason, pretty much his only friend in the house !

What the hell did he do that for ?”

Andy said he himself was the most boring (sarcastically referring to how most of the HMs see him as boring). While looking at the HMs Jason seemed to indicate, "say me" (in a gesture) since I know you don't mean it and it will get the heat off you. I thought this non-verbal communication was very nice and I liked Jason for it. I did not see him doing the same with Lateysha which is why he seemed to get mad about that but not the boring label. Re-watch it but look at Jason instead of Andy (right before Andy says "Jason") and let me know if you see the same non-verbal cues.
lulu g
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by Wainy84:
“You have to be manipulative and sly when you work for the BBC.”

Maybe that's why he left.
hisdogspot
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by Vicky8675309:
“Andy said he himself was the most boring (sarcastically referring to how most of the HMs see him as boring). While looking at the HMs Jason seemed to indicate, say me since I know you don't mean it and it will get the heat off you. I thought this non-verbal communication was very nice and I liked Jason for it. I did not see him doing the same with Lateysha which is why he seemed to get mad about that but not the boring label. Re-watch it but look at Jason instead of Andy (right before Andy says "Jason") and let me know if you see the same non-verbal cues.”

But why did he look for a cop-out at all ?

In the past, Andy has mentioned how the conversions ( or lack thereof ) from others in there bores him rigid. He specifically mentioned Latysha in that regard, saying how she never even speaks about her daughter, and doesn't go beyond "How do my tits look ?"

And there he was, with the opportunity to speak his mind openly and honestly, ( under the guise of a task ) and he chose not to

That might be the kind of thing that is getting him the "Sly" tag
muggins14
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by Vicky8675309:
“Andy said he himself was the most boring (sarcastically referring to how most of the HMs see him as boring). While looking at the HMs Jason seemed to indicate, "say me" (in a gesture) since I know you don't mean it and it will get the heat off you. I thought this non-verbal communication was very nice and I liked Jason for it. I did not see him doing the same with Lateysha which is why he seemed to get mad about that but not the boring label. Re-watch it but look at Jason instead of Andy (right before Andy says "Jason") and let me know if you see the same non-verbal cues.”

There does seem to be a nice friendship happening there - I'm glad Andy has somebody he feels he can open up to and who understands him.
Vicky8675309
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by hisdogspot:
“But why did he look for a cop-out at all ?

In the past, Andy has mentioned how the conversions ( or lack thereof ) from others in there bores him rigid. He specifically mentioned Latysha in that regard, saying how she never even speaks about her daughter, and doesn't go beyond "How do my tits look ?"

And there he was, with the opportunity to speak his mind openly and honestly, ( under the guise of a task ) and he chose not to

That might be the kind of thing that is getting him the "Sly" tag”

He probably finds all of them, except Jason/Emma/Chelsea, equally boring. I wish he had said "there are too many to chose from so I will take the easy option of Jason since he won't have a tantrum unlike the vast majority of you all". So trying to avoid tantrums is sly. Ok
hisdogspot
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by Vicky8675309:
“He probably finds all of them, except Jason/Emma/Chelsea, equally boring. I wish he had said "there are too many to chose from so I will take the easy option of Jason since he won't have a tantrum unlike the vast majority of you all". So trying to avoid tantrums is sly. Ok ”

And going into the bedroom to tell Latysha "I do like you" ? ... that was nothing to do with avoiding tantrums, was it ?

So why did he do it ?

Why did he tell this woman who he has declared shallow and boring from the off, and who has openly expressed her hatred for him, that he "likes" her ?
Rhumbatugger
30-06-2016
Andy overthinks things.

He wanted to put the whole messy bed bitch debacle to bed, so nommed away from that.

It was silly and cheesed me off. But he's feeling neurotic about it all in my opinion.
KT_Dog
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by chuck_wippl:
“What? I don't get it. Is that you doing that? Or imitating Andy?”

It's me. I did indeed completely misinterpret what he said at the time. I only understood it after he'd explained it to the morons later. At which point I was forced to face the fact I was as bigger moron as them.
Rhumbatugger
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by KT_Dog:
“It's me. I did indeed completely misinterpret what he said at the time. I only understood it after he'd explained it to the morons later. At which point I was forced to face the fact I was as bigger moron as them. ”

Oh no you're not.

You got it, they never will.
danielleh
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by chuck_wippl:
“I like Andy, and I don't see the any "sly" or "manipulative" behaviour. They're just too thick to see his genuine self.

Case in point - "Reality check" comment.

Who on earth would think that means anything other than "Shit. Reality check. We've all got to face walking out to that crowd!'”

I thought he meant it as a bit of a dig, and probably still do. Marco was shocked to be evicted, as was a large number of the housemates (I think they all thought Georgina would go). Andy didn't particularly care for Marco, so I too thought he was making a dig/gloating over Marco's eviction. I didn't mind him saying it, in fact I thought it was funny.

Georgina said, "Miaow Andy!" after he said it, and he didn't justify it at the time, so I think there's still a possibility he meant that in a bitchy way, as it was only a day or two later when Laura brought it up to him when he justified it.

I don't think he's overly sly or manipulative. Maybe annoying, or persistent. I do agree though that the gang were probably too thick to eloquently and calmly articulate their side, so resorted to shouting and insulting rather than address the points that Andy was making.
JVS
30-06-2016
Right, will you all stop calling Andy intelligent. He's nothing special.

It's like BOTS always calling Dexter Koh a master game-player.

It's hogwash..
James Frederick
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by JVS:
“Right, will you all stop calling Andy intelligent. He's nothing special.

It's like BOTS always calling Dexter Koh a master game-player.

It's hogwash..”

Well he is compared to most of them.

Then again so is Frank Spencer
Vicky8675309
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by hisdogspot:
“And going into the bedroom to tell Latysha "I do like you" ? ... that was nothing to do with avoiding tantrums, was it ?

So why did he do it ?

Why did he tell this woman who he has declared shallow and boring from the off, and who has openly expressed her hatred for him, that he "likes" her ?”

You can like people that are boring. It shouldn't have generated a tantrum but Lateysha being Lateysha of course had to bitch about it. He may have thought that she thought he was singling her out for the gossiping but he wasn't since it was the whole group he was talking about and to (awkward sentence....sorry). After her hysteria (once she was calm) and seemed to be in a receptive mood, he wanted to make sure she knew that just because she was part of the gossip crew, didn't mean he didn't like her. I don't think it was about nominations. Maybe it was but we don't know for sure either way
Remma
30-06-2016
Originally Posted by BusyV:
“I see so many people writing this here and on other forums but they rarely give examples. I know from the very beginning the other housemates found him boring but where have they suddenly decided he is manipulative and sly. Have I missed something?”

He had the nerve to tell the bedroom bullies that he was upset that they talked about him and others behind backs. Lateysha chose to take that as a personal attack while Sam denied ever being a gossipy bitch. Not liking having their nastiness pointed out to them, they decided that Andy must be manipulative, sly and trying to turn everyone against them.

After that, every time Andy opened his mouth, his words would be twisted and his character even further assassinated.

While Andy isn't perfect, as even he admits he can be patronising, his main fault in this instance was to fail to adore the cool kids.
Mark_JL
30-06-2016
I have to point it out that when he went into the bedroom to tell Lateysha that he likes her, it was after BB revealed that Lateysha, Hughie & Chelsea were talking about him. (Nomination rule break)

If Andy was manipulative, wouldn't he been a leader of a group or clique? That does not make sense to me. Lateysha for example, after he left the room, immediately talked about him to everyone in the bedroom is more of a case of manipulation. (Influencing people's opinion of certain individuals) Maybe he is manipulative, but certainly not more than Lateysha and/or others.
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