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Andy's Fiance has been using Grindr to meet men and has been sending nudes to them |
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It's not exactly ignorance when it comes from personal experience as a gay man
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It's not exactly ignorance when it comes from personal experience as a gay man
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Doesn't mean you can speak on behalf of all gay men, I was in a monagamous relationship for 7 years
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Thought there was something creepy about him.
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I'm not speaking on behalf of all gay men, more as a general rule. As with every rule, there will be exceptions.
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Warning: That Mirror article auto loads a video of their nauseating, desperate, attention seeking engagement.
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Ignorance is generalising
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I doubt it will come as much of a shock to Andy, it's most likely an open relationship. Monogamy doesn't really exist in gay relationships, it's not the deal breaker that it is for straight couples.
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Well, we'll all have to ask Andy when he gets out.
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No. It isn't. Ignorance is the lack of knowledge. Generalising is making a broad statement based on specific cases.
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He probably gave him a hallpass
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Generalising and specific are antonyms, dear
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Yes I know, dear. That's why I said generalising is where you take specific cases, and from these find a commonality, which you then apply generally to things as a whole.
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So Ed and Andy's engagement is more of a joke than Hughie and Ryan's
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Which is what you've done about the gay community. Notice how not one gay person has agreed with what you've said? Clearly got issues
Cheating isn't nearly as common in gay relationships as it is in straight ones, for the simple reason that those who do seek monogamous gay relationships, of which there are some, will find them, and those that don't will have an open relationship, hence the lack of infidelity. There isn't the pressure on gay men to settle down, so for those gay men that want to 'sleep around' they can without ever having to cheat, and likewise, should a gay man want monogamy and fidelity they can have it with a like minded man. If a gay man in a relationship is seeking sex with others, it's unlikely to be infidelity, more likely just enjoying the virtues of their open relationship, which they chose for the simple fact that they knew monogamy was not what they wanted, and had no trouble finding a like minded gay partner. |
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Yes I know it's what I've done, I said as much in a previous post. It was a general rule based on my own personal experiences as a gay man and as someone who has known many gay men over the years, not one who has been in a long-term monogamous relationship, although many have been in open ones.
Cheating isn't nearly as common in gay relationships as it is in straight ones, for the simple reason that those who do seek monogamous gay relationships, of which there are some, will find them, and those that don't will have an open relationship, hence the lack of infidelity. There isn't the pressure on gay men to settle down, so for those gay men that want to 'sleep around' they can without ever having to cheat, and likewise, should a gay man want monogamy and fidelity they can have it with a like minded man. If a gay man in a relationship is seeking sex with others, it's unlikely to be infidelity, more likely just enjoying the virtues of their open relationship, which they chose for the simple fact that they knew monogamy was not what they wanted, and had no trouble finding a like minded gay partner. |
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Further evidence that "engagement" was completely staged.
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That's based on your experience alone. You can't speak for the whole gay community. It's not our fault you've been unlucky in love. You show your ignorance by generalising.
He's not ignorant in the slightest. He's honest more like. |
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That's based on your experience alone. You can't speak for the whole gay community. It's not our fault you've been unlucky in love. You show your ignorance by generalising.
I have no intention of speaking for the whole of the gay community, I was simply making a statement based on the experiences of not just myself but every single gay man that I've ever met. And to clarify, I have never ever been unlucky in love, because love is something I've never sought. |
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Oh ffs can't he not speak about his experiences.
He's not ignorant in the slightest. He's honest more like. |
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But it's not based on just my experience alone , but also that of the hundreds of gay men I've known over the years, none of whom have ever wanted nor had a monogamous, faithful relationship. I don't doubt that there are gay men who want that in life, and I will accept that my use of the word monogamy in my original post (way back when) was incorrect. What i meant was more along the lines of infidelity, and that those who wish to be 'unfaithful' simply avoid entering into monogamous relationships to begin with.
I have no intention of speaking for the whole of the gay community, I was simply making a statement based on the experiences of not just myself but every single gay man that I've ever met. And to clarify, I have never ever been unlucky in love, because love is something I've never sought. |
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People are being stoned to death and Ed goes and does this!?
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To clarify, they aren't in an open relationship, or at any rate not one that allows either one of them to sleep with others. Emma asked Andy on Launch Night if he'd be looking for anyone to have a romance with in the House, and he said, 'No, I've got a partner…'
Of course, it's possible that Andy allows Ed to sleep with other people sometimes and Andy doesn't wish to himself. That does happen. If Ed is cheating on Andy, I would imagine we'd hear nothing about it from him. Andy strikes me as the type of person who keeps his private life private. |
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If one were to obtain some photos of someone, one might be able to set up a fake profile.
Just saying. |
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