Originally Posted by
ftv:
“Would a same-sex couple somehow dance differently ? I'm genuinely puzzled
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To elaborate on what I said on here last night the answer is yes and that is the problem.
Ballroom dancing is a male/female partnership thing and has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It is about form and motion and fluidity and this to a degree works via the costumes and shapes that these allow to be created.
The steps, lifts and moves all work around one man and one woman complementing each other.
Yes, you could adapt them to suit a gay relationship but the dance that results would be so different from all the others in the same category that it would likely be impossible to get the viewers to judge it fairly in comparison. So inevitably there would likely be underscoring that would then (in my view) not be primarily related to homophobia but to the fact that they are seeing dances that are just too unlike what is expected.
I very much doubt most gay contestants prefer to dance with a same sex partner if they actually want to win rather than just make a political point. To some extent I understand that desire, of course, given my circumstances. But it will likely just make things worse.
Strictly is clearly not remotely homophobic. There have been plenty of gay contestants and they have had trans contestants regardless of whether these were gay or straight trans people (as there are both, of course).
All of this suggests the reasons are to do with the dynamics of the male/female balance in this dance competition which the show seem to feel should be what it is about.
If anyone is pressing for gay couples to get a chance then they should be suggesting a strictly gay special where all the couples compete with the same advantages and disadvantages. Because then the underscoring of a one off gay couple which I suspect would happen because of the uniqueness within the show of the dances they do would not be construed as something that I suspect it would not actually be.