Originally Posted by Bettty Boo:
“Hi Lea
I never said you were using multiple accounts. I think this is part of the problem here. You seem to think everyone is against they when i don't think they are. Maybe you are being paranoid and assuming the things people say are about you when they aren't?
You are mentioning police and legal action. I doubt the police would get involved in comments on a web forum as this wouldn't be effecting your daily life unless you were named and identified by a member so maybe don't shout too loudly about things like that as DS mods might not take too kindly too it.
For the record I do think you guys have come across as very cliquey at times and you do seem to ignore people who try to join in. I don't think its intentional I just think the forum moves so fast you might miss people who are trying to make an effort to get along. I'm sure this is all a storm in a tea cup and it will blow over soon.”
“Hi Lea
I never said you were using multiple accounts. I think this is part of the problem here. You seem to think everyone is against they when i don't think they are. Maybe you are being paranoid and assuming the things people say are about you when they aren't?
You are mentioning police and legal action. I doubt the police would get involved in comments on a web forum as this wouldn't be effecting your daily life unless you were named and identified by a member so maybe don't shout too loudly about things like that as DS mods might not take too kindly too it.
For the record I do think you guys have come across as very cliquey at times and you do seem to ignore people who try to join in. I don't think its intentional I just think the forum moves so fast you might miss people who are trying to make an effort to get along. I'm sure this is all a storm in a tea cup and it will blow over soon.”
Betty this has been going on a long time. People have previously set up twitter accounts tweeting stuff about me. They are bringing in laws to stop this kind of thing. It's malicious communication as it is and it is harassment. I am not shouting loudly I am just saying cos I like posting on DS but it is becoming unpleasant to and not just for me other people are being affected now.
I am not being paranoid when I see posts on the forum saying I have done this that and the other and yes I did think I was being paranoid but ppl have told me what people are saying about me.
It might seem cliquey because everyone has a laugh and banter but I can assure you it's not intentional on my part to ignore anyone. I hate being ignored and so try not to do it to others but as you say the forum does move fast. I can't keep up half the time. I felt the same when I first joined that there was a clique, it just takes time to form relationships and get used to ppls posting styles
I will post with anyone on any discussion that interests me on the forum, think that's why I won soap chatterbox
. The last bit of my post above is me saying to the world I am not doing those things I have specifically been accused of. There is more as well! It is quite hard to be trusting of new members due to the amount of posters will multiple personality disorder if you get my meaning!
