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Old 01-12-2016, 23:13
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Did I tell yous about the time I broke up with a girl because she sent me pictures of her self-harming? (sounds harsh but you'd understand if I explained)
I don't think you did no.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:14
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Wouldn't eat **** all in Nuneaton unless I had a death wish!

Once went to a pub in Nuneaton (not my choice, I tried to convince them to change the venue) and took a roll of toilet roll and cleaned every glass before I used it (not even kidding, got some right looks!)
I do this in all pubs and restaurants anyway. And the cutlery. Part of my (real) OCD.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:14
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I'm with you on all of this.

Busy places and also the Tube in London, way too claustrophobic.

I'm a very fast walker, hate slow walkers, just speed up FFS
We generally are the same person.

They don't even have to go that fast, just STOP dawdling or at least let me in front.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:15
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I do this in all pubs and restaurants anyway. And the cutlery. Part of my (real) OCD.
I don't but I have to check each fork etc. I won't drink out of a cup if I've just seen something in it
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:16
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We generally are the same person.

They don't even have to go that fast, just STOP dawdling or at least let me in front.
Have you finally come over to the dark side then?

I normally try and cut around in front of them, and then slow down just to show them. Childish, I know.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:16
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I agree 102%

This reminded me of the time someone on facebook took a selfie at 2am with mascara running down their face with a huge paragraph explaining they were depressed because they failed their exams.

Talk about glamorising mental illnesses.
FFS! That shit makes me so mad. Talk about blatant attention-whoring. It's like people who commit suicide. I know this is a generalisation but I've known of so many people who've taken their own lives who you would just never ever suspect would do that.

Wouldn't eat **** all in Nuneaton unless I had a death wish!

Once went to a pub in Nuneaton (not my choice, I tried to convince them to change the venue) and took a roll of toilet roll and cleaned every glass before I used it (not even kidding, got some right looks!)
Did that not make the glasses even dirtier?

Trot Thought you'd waddle if you get what you mean
Why does this comment make me think of - https://youtu.be/SXiSVQZLje8?t=60

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Old 01-12-2016, 23:19
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I don't think you did no.
So basically I was dating this girl, Tanya, and I'd been dating her for about a month. One night she sent me a picture on WhatsApp (when I was on holiday) saying she was missing me, and then sent me a picture of some cuts on her wrist. I asked why she did it, and she said "bored and missing you". She didn't know about my problems but I said it wasn't funny, and she said "it was a joke". I got angry and then she said "it's not my wrist". I got more angry and asked why she sent me it in the first place, never mind someone else's wrist, and she said it was a joke. I asked whose wrist it was and she said "mine". I broke up with her and told her to stop messaging me because I didn't need pictures like that being sent to me.

I'm pretty sure there was some stuff in between but **** finding the messages, it was two years ago.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:19
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FFS! That shit makes me so mad. Talk about blatant attention-whoring. It's like people who commit suicide. I know this is a generalisation but I've known of so many people who've taken their own lives who you would just never ever suspect would do that.
It is always the people you least expect to do it, there was someone in school who committed suicide and you would never have guessed he was clinically depressed. Turns out he wasn't able to talk to anyone about it, and that is why it is so important to talk about it.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:20
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We generally are the same person.

They don't even have to go that fast, just STOP dawdling or at least let me in front.
Why do people always just STOP in the busiest places as well? An entire family did this to me recently in London - on the Embankment, just stopped for no reason and blocked everyone's way
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:21
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FFS! That shit makes me so mad. Talk about blatant attention-whoring. It's like people who commit suicide. I know this is a generalisation but I've known of so many people who've taken their own lives who you would just never ever suspect would do that.

Did that not make the glasses even dirtier?

Why does this comment make me think of - https://youtu.be/SXiSVQZLje8?t=60

If you're suggesting they had man juice on, no. If I were to be caught masturbating in Nuneaton I would deserve to have my penis removed!
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:22
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It is always the people you least expect to do it, there was someone in school who committed suicide and you would never have guessed he was clinically depressed. Turns out he wasn't able to talk to anyone about it, and that is why it is so important to talk about it.
Talking about is important but also incredibly difficult. Whenever I've had counselling I've always found it challenging to get things off my chest, just the kind of person I am.

When soaps mention this it annoys me, EastEnders do it a lot, "just talk about it", well you know what some people can't!
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:22
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So basically I was dating this girl, Tanya, and I'd been dating her for about a month. One night she sent me a picture on WhatsApp (when I was on holiday) saying she was missing me, and then sent me a picture of some cuts on her wrist. I asked why she did it, and she said "bored and missing you". She didn't know about my problems but I said it wasn't funny, and she said "it was a joke". I got angry and then she said "it's not my wrist". I got more angry and asked why she sent me it in the first place, never mind someone else's wrist, and she said it was a joke. I asked whose wrist it was and she said "mine". I broke up with her and told her to stop messaging me because I didn't need pictures like that being sent to me.

I'm pretty sure there was some stuff in between but **** finding the messages, it was two years ago.
That is sick. Her arm or not you do not joke about serious stuff like that. If anything it was good you broke up with her, she sounds vile if she thinks self harming is funny and a 'joke'.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:22
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It is always the people you least expect to do it, there was someone in school who committed suicide and you would never have guessed he was clinically depressed. Turns out he wasn't able to talk to anyone about it, and that is why it is so important to talk about it.
I know, it's terrible. A fair few people from my year, and other years, did the same. It's so sad and quite a serious problem amongst young men, because they are expected not to talk about things
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:23
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Why do people always just STOP in the busiest places as well? An entire family did this to me recently in London - on the Embankment, just stopped for no reason and blocked everyone's way
A whole family

Did you offend them somehow?
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:23
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Why do people always just STOP in the busiest places as well? An entire family did this to me recently in London - on the Embankment, just stopped for no reason and blocked everyone's way
HATE that.

Also when they walk fast only to slow right down. I make subtle (obvious) hints that I'm waiting
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:23
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If you're suggesting they had man juice on, no. If I were to be caught masturbating in Nuneaton I would deserve to have my penis removed!
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:24
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A whole family

Did you offend them somehow?
Probably shagged all the males and slept with the females's boyfriends
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:24
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HATE that.

Also when they walk fast only to slow right down. I make subtle (obvious) hints that I'm waiting
I normally usher them along with my hands and huff.

Not that they can see it, of course. Makes no bloody difference
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:25
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That is sick. Her arm or not you do not joke about serious stuff like that. If anything it was good you broke up with her, she sounds vile if she thinks self harming is funny and a 'joke'.
Exactly, I went off my nut. You've now got me tryna find the messages
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:25
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I normally usher them along with my hands and huff.

Not that they can see it, of course. Makes no bloody difference
OMG same.

Then I start whistling and turn to my friend/whoever I'm with and say something really obviously so they hear
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:26
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A whole family

Did you offend them somehow?
A mum, dad and the whole f*cking Von Trapps behind them

No, I don't think so. I think the mother wanted something out of her bag but she could've moved to the side.

I just got real Scottish and shouted, 'Want 'e move?'

HATE that.

Also when they walk fast only to slow right down. I make subtle (obvious) hints that I'm waiting
Such as, 'HURRY UP!' My other pet peeve is when people with buggies ram up the back of you into your ankles
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:26
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Talking about is important but also incredibly difficult. Whenever I've had counselling I've always found it challenging to get things off my chest, just the kind of person I am.

When soaps mention this it annoys me, EastEnders do it a lot, "just talk about it", well you know what some people can't!
That's very true unfortunately, especially in men. Sometimes people will just open up, whereas others will be more reserved and won't talk about things straightaway, if at all.

Even though that's annoying, it is a statement lots of people say. I know when I was doing my project back in February on depression, a statistic came up that in Wales and England, Mental Health Discrimination is the second most discriminated against condition, with HIV/AIDS being first.
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:29
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A mum, dad and the whole f*cking Von Trapps behind them

No, I don't think so. I think the mother wanted something out of her bag but she could've moved to the side.

I just got real Scottish and shouted, 'Want 'e move?'



Such as, 'HURRY UP!' My other pet peeve is when people with buggies ram up the back of you into your ankles
That needed a "laddie," at the end
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:29
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A mum, dad and the whole f*cking Von Trapps behind them

No, I don't think so. I think the mother wanted something out of her bag but she could've moved to the side.

I just got real Scottish and shouted, 'Want 'e move?'

Such as, 'HURRY UP!' My other pet peeve is when people with buggies ram up the back of you into your ankles
People with shopping trolleys. Swear people should need special driving licences for them monsters
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Old 01-12-2016, 23:30
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Exactly, I went off my nut. You've now got me tryna find the messages
I'm not surprised.

I know that one of the bully girls at school said to me once that I should go and kill myself. I replied that they'd miss me too much because all they seemed to do was stalk me and find stuff out about me.
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