Originally Posted by UrGleekIsShowin:
“Hi Ricky
It's always good to know that I'm not the only one. I'm so confused right now, I don't really know what I want. It's so hard to ignore other people because I always feel like they are the authority. The media has made it quite clear that my body does not look like how it should do, and I'm not as sexual as I should be. But the problem is I'm too much of a wimp to kill myself, so I'm stuck really.
I don't like to admit this because I really do love him but I'm not sure my current boyfriend is who I want to do it with. I think I've gone far enough with him to know that. I enjoy other things we do, though.”
“Hi Ricky
It's always good to know that I'm not the only one. I'm so confused right now, I don't really know what I want. It's so hard to ignore other people because I always feel like they are the authority. The media has made it quite clear that my body does not look like how it should do, and I'm not as sexual as I should be. But the problem is I'm too much of a wimp to kill myself, so I'm stuck really. I don't like to admit this because I really do love him but I'm not sure my current boyfriend is who I want to do it with. I think I've gone far enough with him to know that. I enjoy other things we do, though.”
I hate the media and try to ignore it as much as possible - all it brings is pressure and bad thoughts. Its influence on people is corrupting - at the end of the day it's all run by rich old men who know nothing about real life so I would try and ignore it. It really helps.
Are you talking to anyone about your feelings? It really helps.
You can still be friends if you break up - and if you are going to, I'd get it done sooner than later. Prolonging it won't help.
Originally Posted by Aaron_Silver:
“BIB I agree Rick. The pressures of the gay community to be an utter slapper is outrageous, I felt the same when young. Considering my age I have had very few sexual partners and do not desire to have lots of notches on the bed post, unfortunately some people seem to think that is the point of being gay. And that's from within the community. It's a matter of being confident in your own choices, and confident in your own freedom of thought, however, for most that doesn't come easily and I continue every day trying to master it. Be the shepherd not the sheep.
Good post Rick.
”
“BIB I agree Rick. The pressures of the gay community to be an utter slapper is outrageous, I felt the same when young. Considering my age I have had very few sexual partners and do not desire to have lots of notches on the bed post, unfortunately some people seem to think that is the point of being gay. And that's from within the community. It's a matter of being confident in your own choices, and confident in your own freedom of thought, however, for most that doesn't come easily and I continue every day trying to master it. Be the shepherd not the sheep.
Good post Rick.
”
Thanks Aaron - I agree with everything you said






how he is still alive I have no idea


