I hate the media and try to ignore it as much as possible - all it brings is pressure and bad thoughts. Its influence on people is corrupting - at the end of the day it's all run by rich old men who know nothing about real life so I would try and ignore it. It really helps.

Are you talking to anyone about your feelings? It really helps.

You can still be friends if you break up - and if you are going to, I'd get it done sooner than later. Prolonging it won't help.


Thanks Aaron - I agree with everything you said

Be still, my beating heart!

Aaron's post made a lot of sense

I am definitely under the media's influence, I think it's harder to break out of it when you're a teenager.

The only people I talk about my feelings with are you guys I'm out of therapy at the moment.

Do you think I have to break up with him? I do love him, he just upset me by talking about sexual stuff but I was the one who brought it up. I just think he deserves better, a normal girl.

I agree the internet is not the best place to meet people, but I'm such a hypocrite as I've met some of my best friends online!

You only learn with experience and though I haven't had much of it, I can now spot a douchebag from a mile off!

Apparently I do. Pfft, the only time I'm nice is when I want something


Not sure but he really needs to stop with that Spanish else you'll think he's breaking up with you when he's telling you he's going to bed

BIB - Join the club. Why do you think I've kept my distance from Rick, there's summat dodgy about him, and it's not that he comes from Brum...

Are you sure that's not what it is?

Yeah it's getting confusing but it's too cute when he gets words mixed up

I don't wanna break up with him

Oi you




Strictly final tonight: did you watch it Lea? What did you think of the winner?

You are a normal girl, you love glee for gods sake!

You dont have to break up with him but you do need to have a talk with him and tell him you are not ready for sex and talking sexual stuff . Though if you can't imagine ever going to that level with him then you might need to consider whether to just step back to being friends.

Sorry I am sure it is a lovely place And if not, at least you are a good representation

I didnt watch it. i havent watched any of the series

Aah


Whoops. Thought you did

I normally do and I did intend to catch up and watch the first on iplayer and skip the claudette bits but then I forgot and just never bothered catching up

Tameka

sorry, this post got buried!

Hehe I guess I am

I did have that talk with him today, he was so sweet, in fact I was the one who kept pushing the subject because I just couldn't/can't believe that he's not fussed about sex, but he's never lied to me before.

I can imagine it actually, as I almost did, but that was what made me realise it was gonna be too painful. I kinda self-harm down there and I think I might have done some damage But I can't seem to stop punishing my body for being ugly

HA bullshit

Well hello there friends

BIB - Really sorry but I'm not going to lie, I had to ask Gleek for assistance because I thought this meant you'd been cheated on BY A WOMAN after a same sex relationship. I was so confused as I thought you were straight.

What will I do without Confused Connie?

Ozzy Ozzy Ozzy, Dicks in the trolley, Bulls in the biscuit tin.

I should have known you'd bring up that song when I posted again

A full TTN thread page and nothing remotely inappropriate? Maintain standards, guys

Me, you, Chatzy and a good bitch.

Can't have a royal like you turning up without your theme song. Nice to see you

I meant claudia winkleman 😂😂😂😂