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Hi Ricky
It's always good to know that I'm not the only one. I'm so confused right now, I don't really know what I want. It's so hard to ignore other people because I always feel like they are the authority. The media has made it quite clear that my body does not look like how it should do, and I'm not as sexual as I should be. But the problem is I'm too much of a wimp to kill myself, so I'm stuck really. I don't like to admit this because I really do love him but I'm not sure my current boyfriend is who I want to do it with. I think I've gone far enough with him to know that. I enjoy other things we do, though. Are you talking to anyone about your feelings? It really helps. You can still be friends if you break up - and if you are going to, I'd get it done sooner than later. Prolonging it won't help. Quote:
BIB I agree Rick. The pressures of the gay community to be an utter slapper is outrageous, I felt the same when young. Considering my age I have had very few sexual partners and do not desire to have lots of notches on the bed post, unfortunately some people seem to think that is the point of being gay. And that's from within the community. It's a matter of being confident in your own choices, and confident in your own freedom of thought, however, for most that doesn't come easily and I continue every day trying to master it. Be the shepherd not the sheep.
Good post Rick.
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That we do! Its funny how the second two who cheated, the married one and my last fella both I met on the internet! I have had other internet dates in between them but
I find that you don't really know who you are meeting. All my other encounters have been men I know, know of or are friends of friends. Apart from some of the ONS's they were just attractive men I pulled in various clubs here and abroad ![]() We do all have a past and we all think similar things some of what you said earlier I know I think it at times and so do friends. Comparing yourself to others is not good I might have been sorry they did it at the time but its all part of learning and getting life experience. I can sniff out married men so easily now ![]() ![]()
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I hate the media and try to ignore it as much as possible - all it brings is pressure and bad thoughts. Its influence on people is corrupting - at the end of the day it's all run by rich old men who know nothing about real life so I would try and ignore it. It really helps.
Are you talking to anyone about your feelings? It really helps. You can still be friends if you break up - and if you are going to, I'd get it done sooner than later. Prolonging it won't help. Thanks Aaron - I agree with everything you said ![]() I am definitely under the media's influence, I think it's harder to break out of it when you're a teenager. The only people I talk about my feelings with are you guys I'm out of therapy at the moment. Do you think I have to break up with him? I do love him, he just upset me by talking about sexual stuff but I was the one who brought it up. I just think he deserves better, a normal girl. |
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That we do! Its funny how the second two who cheated, the married one and my last fella both I met on the internet! I have had other internet dates in between them but
I find that you don't really know who you are meeting. All my other encounters have been men I know, know of or are friends of friends. Apart from some of the ONS's they were just attractive men I pulled in various clubs here and abroad ![]() We do all have a past and we all think similar things some of what you said earlier I know I think it at times and so do friends. Comparing yourself to others is not good I might have been sorry they did it at the time but its all part of learning and getting life experience. I can sniff out married men so easily now ![]() You only learn with experience and though I haven't had much of it, I can now spot a douchebag from a mile off! |
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Iv been cheated on, the first, it was long distance and she was a work colleague, she made it obvious when I met her, the second was married and not single!, the third just thought he was single cos he forgot to dump me
how he is still alive I have no ideaI have never cheated on a fella, however I did sleep with a few friends of my ex including his best friend repeatedly . I have knowingly had affairs/flings/ONS's with married and attached men oops ![]() ![]() Quote:
Just cos it's Christmas you don't have to be nice Danny.
I put up some of my christmas decorations today. i had bought a pack of ten batteries and they are all gone 😲 Its like blackpool flaming illuminations 😂😂 ![]() Quote:
Aaron's post made a lot of sense
I am definitely under the media's influence, I think it's harder to break out of it when you're a teenager. The only people I talk about my feelings with are you guys I'm out of therapy at the moment. Do you think I have to break up with him? I do love him, he just upset me by talking about sexual stuff but I was the one who brought it up. I just think he deserves better, a normal girl.
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I agree the internet is not the best place to meet people, but I'm such a hypocrite as I've met some of my best friends online!
You only learn with experience and though I haven't had much of it, I can now spot a douchebag from a mile off! ![]() ![]()
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BIB - Join the club. Why do you think I've kept my distance from Rick, there's summat dodgy about him, and it's not that he comes from Brum...
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Not sure but he really needs to stop with that Spanish else you'll think he's breaking up with you when he's telling you he's going to bed ![]() I don't wanna break up with him
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BIB - Join the club. Why do you think I've kept my distance from Rick, there's summat dodgy about him, and it's not that he comes from Brum...
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Are you sure that's not what it is?
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Aaron's post made a lot of sense
I am definitely under the media's influence, I think it's harder to break out of it when you're a teenager. The only people I talk about my feelings with are you guys I'm out of therapy at the moment. Do you think I have to break up with him? I do love him, he just upset me by talking about sexual stuff but I was the one who brought it up. I just think he deserves better, a normal girl. You dont have to break up with him but you do need to have a talk with him and tell him you are not ready for sex and talking sexual stuff . Though if you can't imagine ever going to that level with him then you might need to consider whether to just step back to being friends. |
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Oi you
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Oi you
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Sorry I am sure it is a lovely place
And if not, at least you are a good representation ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Quote:
I didnt watch it. i havent watched any of the series
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Aah
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I normally do and I did intend to catch up and watch the first on iplayer and skip the claudette bits but then I forgot and just never bothered catching up
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You are a normal girl, you love glee for gods sake!
You dont have to break up with him but you do need to have a talk with him and tell him you are not ready for sex and talking sexual stuff . Though if you can't imagine ever going to that level with him then you might need to consider whether to just step back to being friends. Hehe I guess I am ![]() I did have that talk with him today, he was so sweet, in fact I was the one who kept pushing the subject because I just couldn't/can't believe that he's not fussed about sex, but he's never lied to me before. I can imagine it actually, as I almost did, but that was what made me realise it was gonna be too painful. I kinda self-harm down there and I think I might have done some damage But I can't seem to stop punishing my body for being ugly
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Sorry I am sure it is a lovely place
And if not, at least you are a good representation ![]() |
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Well hello there friends
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Iv been cheated on, the first, it was long distance and she was a work colleague, she made it obvious when I met her
, the second was married and not single!, the third just thought he was single cos he forgot to dump me how he is still alive I have no idea ![]() I have never cheated on a fella, however I did sleep with a few friends of my ex including his best friend repeatedly . I have knowingly had affairs/flings/ONS's with married and attached men oops ![]() ![]() What will I do without Confused Connie?
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#13445 |
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Well hello there friends
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Ozzy Ozzy Ozzy, Dicks in the trolley, Bulls in the biscuit tin.
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A full TTN thread page and nothing remotely inappropriate?
Maintain standards, guys
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A full TTN thread page and nothing remotely inappropriate?
Maintain standards, guys ![]()
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I should have known you'd bring up that song when I posted again
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#13450 |
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I meant claudia winkleman 😂😂😂😂
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It's always good to know that I'm not the only one. I'm so confused right now, I don't really know what I want. It's so hard to ignore other people because I always feel like they are the authority. The media has made it quite clear that my body does not look like how it should do, and I'm not as sexual as I should be. But the problem is I'm too much of a wimp to kill myself, so I'm stuck really. 


how he is still alive I have no idea


