I am finding her an interesting HM and despite myself, am beginning to like her at times. I am not sure she had a romantic interest in Bear, especially if she already had a man. I think she liked the idea that as the most powerful woman, she wanted to be the one to control and contain the Crazy. She wanted the Crazy to like and respect her and probably desire her. There seemed to be an agreement that they were aligned and he did say to her that he would never even kiss anyone in the house. I think Bear hooking up with someone as dim, shallow and unattractive as Chloe, is a big knock to Renee's ego. I think she feels hoodwinked by Bear and insulted that they have not given her the respect she feels she deserves. I think what she was really saying to Chloe was that she most definitely had burnt her bridges, because she had had the nerve to piss on Renee's territory.