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Old 07-08-2016, 13:59
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Yeah of course I don't expect people to feel sorry for him, and of course we cannot guarantee this is true. I hate him his behaviour as well.

There has to be a reason why Bear is the way he is though, this seems to make a little bit of sense. I'm not sure if he even wanted to become a celebrity in the first place, that he may only be doing it to try and win respect from his parents. Though saying that, you do wonder why his parents called him the "shit brother" in the first place.

I agree though, if he wants respect, he has to earn it like everybody else does. It might be difficult for him but he has got to find a way.
I thought he said that when he was young, they had great family parties and he misses that, now that he's older. Nothing mentioned about an awful family life.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:09
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Not sure how true this is, but I found this article about someone that Bear had been going though.

I always thought bear to be very insecure, I thought there would be some reason why he behaves the way he does. It seems to me that he is used to getting loads of negative comments, even from his parents (and all his life).

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/tv/big-br...secure-bentley
I get the impression that he has been thoroughly spoilt all his life and used to getting his own way. Insecure or not, he is still a very nasty individual.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:11
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Is there an 'ignore' function on this forum?
Yes there is. If you go onto User CP and then Buddy/Ignore List you can type in the username to ignore them.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:14
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Boo Hoo cry me a river. He is a grown man now not a child. He needs to grow the hell up and act like a man and not a silly game playing adolescent. No sympathy whatsoever for him.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:15
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Yes there is. If you go onto User CP and then Buddy/Ignore List you can type in the username to ignore them.
Wonderful, thanks. I only saw the 'add to buddy list'.

That's better, no more annoying 'noise'. If only it was that easy to get rid of Boar!
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:16
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Yeah of course I don't expect people to feel sorry for him, and of course we cannot guarantee this is true. I hate him his behaviour as well.

There has to be a reason why Bear is the way he is though, this seems to make a little bit of sense. I'm not sure if he even wanted to become a celebrity in the first place, that he may only be doing it to try and win respect from his parents. Though saying that, you do wonder why his parents called him the "shit brother" in the first place.

I agree though, if he wants respect, he has to earn it like everybody else does. It might be difficult for him but he has got to find a way.
Well he isn't one so he needn't worry!
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:17
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Well he isn't one so he needn't worry!
Well said
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:28
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A source says..."If he plays it right after BB, and has the right agent, he's got the charisma to go far.

Charisma??? best laugh I've had all week.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:50
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He is a brat, pure and simple. Reminds me of a child who hasn't had any boundaries set. He stated he can do as he wants and nobody can stop him. That put BB in their place.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:50
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A source says..."If he plays it right after BB, and has the right agent, he's got the charisma to go far.

Charisma??? best laugh I've had all week.
He has less charisma than a piece of dried up old toast.

When he's not shouting his head off and snarling with aggression, he's quite attractive in a sexy, chavvy way but as soon as he opens his mouth then any attraction is gone.
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Old 07-08-2016, 14:51
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He is a brat, pure and simple. Reminds me of a child who hasn't had any boundaries set. He stated he can do as he wants and nobody can stop him. That put BB in their place.
I said something similar yesterday, agree.
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Old 07-08-2016, 15:00
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Wonderful, thanks. I only saw the 'add to buddy list'.

That's better, no more annoying 'noise'. If only it was that easy to get rid of Boar!
You're welcome Remember that Black Mirror episode where people get blocked in real life? Shame we can't do that to him.
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Old 07-08-2016, 15:28
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Bulls**

That does not give him free reign to act like an arseh0le. So many people have issues - at some point he is going to have to take ownership for that fact that he is a horrible human being and fix it.
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Old 07-08-2016, 15:35
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From the article:



Cats must be getting bloody expensive these days
I bet he went for those ferocious Bengal cats!
Even a high end cat is only a grand ....it's not like buying two new high end cars.
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Old 07-08-2016, 15:40
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The reason he tossed the cup was because he had lost heavy d and renees friendship. In my opinion.
I think this too. He's now found another mother figure in Saira. But he needs to be careful not to lose her too.
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Old 07-08-2016, 16:00
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Not a particularly satisfying explanation though. His brother is rich and his parents are critical of him with no actual examples of that and he still chooses lives at home Wow poor Bear

It reeks to me of a pathetic attempt at a public relations exercise. Presumably the Star want him to write a column for them or something
Can you do any better? Can you provide a more satisfactory explanation? Because there has to be an explanation - humans don't conjure their behaviour uncaused out of nothing.

By explanation I don't mean something like 'he's an idiot / wind-up merchant / ignoramus'. Some of his behaviour undoubtedly is idiotic / provocative / ignorant but those are descriptions not explanations.
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Old 07-08-2016, 17:07
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Can you do any better? Can you provide a more satisfactory explanation? Because there has to be an explanation - humans don't conjure their behaviour uncaused out of nothing.

By explanation I don't mean something like 'he's an idiot / wind-up merchant / ignoramus'. Some of his behaviour undoubtedly is idiotic / provocative / ignorant but those are descriptions not explanations.
Can't be doing with psycho babble .
The explanation is that he is an idiotic provocative ignorant buffoon with no sense of empathy for anyone . Sometimes crap people are just crap people despite how well brought up and treated they've been .
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Old 07-08-2016, 17:33
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Can't be doing with psycho babble .
The explanation is that he is an idiotic provocative ignorant buffoon with no sense of empathy for anyone .
I think I was clear that I don't regard that as an explanation and you haven't changed my mind.

Sometimes crap people are just crap people despite how well brought up and treated they've been .
So presumably you believe that, conversely, sometimes 'crap' people are 'crap' because of their life experiences etc? If so, why do you reject that possibility in Bear's case?
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Old 07-08-2016, 17:40
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Not a particularly satisfying explanation though. His brother is rich and his parents are critical of him with no actual examples of that and he still chooses lives at home Wow poor Bear

It reeks to me of a pathetic attempt at a public relations exercise. Presumably the Star want him to write a column for them or something
I may be making a presumption but his insecurities appear to be centred in money and fame.It seems as though he comes from a family that must be fairly comfortably off. If he wants to pass off his brothers as his it seems like money is the problem.
He appears to want superficial things.
When the robot food task was on .He asked Aubrey to say 3 things she liked about him! When she diplomatically said it wouldn't be about his personality .He thought the superficial physical features was fine! He hardened cottoned on to the fact she didn't like him .She struggled to find 3 things but she did it!He was happy.I would have cottoned on to that that omission of personality. He rated his appearance more important .He seems a bitter and superficial who wants money from CBB to land in his lap
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Old 07-08-2016, 17:51
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I think I was clear that I don't regard that as an explanation and you haven't changed my mind.



So presumably you believe that, conversely, sometimes 'crap' people are 'crap' because of their life experiences etc? If so, why do you reject that possibility in Bear's case?
He's jealous of his successful brother and too lazy to be bothered working for what the brother has . He's just another child who wants what he wants right now regardless of not earning it .
So yeah , just a crap person .
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