Bear has a way with words, that's how you get a woman to respect you, at least he was straight with her, not trying to woo her with things like "I really like you, I really respect you, I really want to care for you". Never mind she has a kid somewhere who knows that her mum doesn't care how she comes across on national TV, what a wonderful couple they make. Who's gonna buy a hat for the wedding of the century?

Pre-requisites for reality shows like TOWIE, GS, EOTB etc are a lack of respect for each other and a lack of self-respect. All that matters is conforming to the production teams' requirements in order to gain some media exposure and make some cash.

But I bet their parents were so proud of them last night!