Originally Posted by al_capo:
“I wouldnt, if I knew it was only 3 weeks I would humour him and just have a laugh. Its a game that will fly by so quickly, they should just make the most of it and stop bitching about one person.”
The problem with this al_capo is most people who have made it very clear they don't appreciate his personality or particularly like his brand of humour have got to the point where they have said, look, do your thing, we'll do ours, leave us alone. That's the PROBLEM. Bear is
unable to leave people alone. He ceases to exist if he is not interacting in a negative way with them. He NEEDS to cause mayhem within the group. If they want to do their own thing and he's not part of it - He HAS to ruin if for them, so the attention lands squarely back on him.
He is a useless, spiteful baby demanding attention from a room
almost full of adults. Whether they are well-adjusted adults in the average man/woman's terms maybe debatable, but because of Bear's attitude, it is infecting the whole house negatively. Something he thrives on!
Yes, you can say, '
oh, just humour him' but until you live in a house with a vile narcissist, you cannot humour them. They despise harmony with a passion. They only feel harmony within themselves when they are hurting, destroying, and making people feel uncomfortable. That's what makes them tick! They
have to create discourse, even within their supporters, because without it, conversations move on, cliques form, and his 'power' ceases to impact them. He has to cause waves to be relevant. He is the king in his little own universe and he will damn well make sure everybody is talking about him. If it's negative talk, we and the house will just be accused of being jealous of his position. Humour him, my arse. I think it's crystal clear, people have moved above and beyond with this cretin.