His lack of self control is nobodies fault but his own!

All he had to say was no...I find it sad that Heavy is so weak where food is concerned.

Most of us can see what's going and it isn't just a harmless bit of fun Sadly some people just don't get it.

Agree...I saw no one forcing it down Heavy's throat.

Heavy is so overweight because he eats all the time.

maybe so, but knowing that is his weakness and then sticking food in his face when he has said he doesn't want it, makes you a complete ****

No. Firstly they knew his task was to eat slop all day but they make it harder for him by eating cake around him and leaving piece of cake next to him.

Then they goad him by making him out to be boring or scared for not breaking the rules.

Then patronise him by feeding him like a child.

Heavy D could have resisted but then gets labelled as boring by the "cool" kids or he could have stood up to them and been laughed at for being too sensitive or not getting the joke.

Either way Bear is an expert at condescending manipulative and passive aggressive behaviour. This is not fun but means that if you ignore him you look boring, if you play along you look like you've been manipulated and if you stand up to him, you look like you can't take a joke.

Bear is a Bargain Bucket Perez Hilton and needs to be he centre of attention. If you value him as a great comedian, prankster, and all round funny guy you will be safe from his "banter" like Marnie Chloe and Lewis

If you rise to him and play along like Heavy D and Renee he will continue to abuse you.

If you try to be peacemaker like Saira or Frankie he will see this as a weakness and challenge to piss you off and prove you can't control him.

Bear is basically a small-minded, weak individual that needs to ridicule and put down others to validate his existence. He is a very shallow and sad individual but if he took time to work on his own emotions and to value the strengths and weaknesses of others, rather than using them as a source of his own personal, cruel entertainment he could become a more well-rounded and potentially interesting person.

They were all laughing, Heavy has taken on Bear and Lewis a few times so if he felt bullied or pressured eh would said something. It was fun, Heavy might not even care that he is overweight, he always has his top off so he isnt exactly self conscious is he?

No, it makes heavy look weak and greedy! He could easily have turned the situation around and made bear look like a (even bigger than he already is) tit by refusing and walking away! I dislike heavy as much as the so called 'squad' but I would have had a bit of respect for him if he just walked away, all for a mouthful of cake as well haha!

Made me cringe...and pretty mad too.
Heavy D is very simple and greedy. Did he not realise what they were doing? That BB watch 24/7?
The other two were pretty disgusting to be honest.

Must admit i thought it was funny, we've seen this before on previous BB.

Marc and Jack, BB16?

It was funny.

Clearly the bores in the house are matched by a surfeit of humourless bores on this forum too.

What amuses me is that these people watch Big brother (a reality show) and then complain when reality stars sign up. I would rather see a reality star come in and stir up rather than see an a lister come in and do nothing. Katie Price is a prime example, she had a massive hype but she was boring.

He said no a few times but they kept on and on. They are like the friends you don't need when giving up smoking or drinking and they waft a cigarette or pint under your nose laughing.

Basically Heavy was doing well and sticking to the slop which neither of the two idiots liked as they can't abide anyone doing well in life so they tempted him numerous times and went as far as to put it next to him when he said no, then cut a slice , then put it on a spoon in his face when he said no. All so he could fail and look an idiot...that was the purpose...not fun.

Do not agree...if he was doing well he would not have eaten it.

Heavy ate the food because he wanted to...Heavy chooses to be that size.

[quote=biomorph04;83554047]It was funny.

Clearly the bores in the house are matched by a surfeit of humourless bores on this forum too.[/QUOTE

Yeah I must have suddenly lost my sense of humour as I don't find making people fail at something deliberately when they are doing well so I can then make myself look superior funny. I must have such a dull life laughing at funny things and celebrating people's successes with them or even ..... Encouraging them...wow how dull am i

Agree.it wasnt like Heavy looked upset so what made people feel uncomfortable ? Apparently giving someone a slice of cake is now bullying them.heard it all now.

People on here are actually pathetic, I said I have a few mates who are similar to Bear and then I got told to get some self respect and stop being a doormat. Seems Im being spied on as they seem pretty sure of what is going on in my life.

I really do think that some on here have really lost the plot.

The fact that they blame others for Heavy eating the food.

Heavy ...it is called willpower...sadly you have none.

No it wasn't funny . It was cruel and typical bullying .just to get him in trouble and be hated like them
Bear is smart he appealed to his ego to eat it .and d had little choice then.

You will get a shock if you actually ever witness proper bullying, this isnt bullying at all.

'Making people fail'? Haha, give yourself a shake! Heavy failed because he allowed himself to fail! All Heavy had to do was walk away, he ate the cake because he wanted to eat the cake.. No other reason! Don't infantilize a grown man, that's more insulting than waving cake under said mans nose!

Of course it is not bullying...amazes me how easy some people use that word.

The word is WILLPOWER...that is all Heavy had to do have a little bit of willpower...and he did not.

Well said...he could have walked away.

The bullying is not the act its the intention and reason why they done it.
They see him not as their equal its a form of ridicule which is bullying.
Get the dim fat kid in trouble so he is hated then laugh that's their mindset and that is bullying .