Originally Posted by hisdogspot:
“That task sort of put his whole persona into perspective
Thinking back, he has never been malicious in either his actions or words, and his pranks and wind-ups have been pretty harmless really
Has the reaction to his behaviour, and the absolute condemnation of him here, been out of proportion and over the top ?”
I don't think the reaction has been over the top, no.
Whether his intent is malicious or not (and the jury is out on that for me), the result is that people get very, very upset, angry, stressed so his actions hurt people. Like the thing with the yearbook. He felt a need to do it so it had to be done for him, blow how everybody else would feel about it.
Even if the damage could be repaired (which I doubt unless it was laminated) how does he think they'd feel seeing their names and phots defaced? It's not nice.
If he truly isn't malicious, then he would learn from incidents which have upset his housemates (like the coffee cocktail) and sincerely apologize for his actions, stating he didn't mean to ofend and try his hardest not to do it again.
That isn't the case, he keeps repeating things he knows upset people so it must be malicious.
Or he has something like Narcissistic Personality Disorder so really isn't in control.