I really don't know when to believe bear or not!
What was he doing in the garden last night moving things around?
What was he doing in the garden last night moving things around?
That could be the end of Bear
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Originally Posted by AnotherPOV:
“He was concentrating on balancing the donuts.”
“He was concentrating on balancing the donuts.”
Didn't bother anyone else, so your excuse doesn't wash.
Originally Posted by Goggle girl:
“It was the nasty little shrug he gave to Lillie which showed him up. Then the chat with Lewis & Marnie when he never once suggested that he had behaved badly, was sorry for hurting her ir any responsibility for his actions. He really tried to put the blame on Lillie, think he even said words to the effect that he had to "put up with" her. Of course,we don't know what went on between them & she may not have been a great girlfriend in private but it was the callousnes with which he justified his actions which was uncomfortable. I know Bear lovers will shoot this down, but it really is a strong indicator of sociopathic behaviour and I am convinced he is on that spectrum,”
“It was the nasty little shrug he gave to Lillie which showed him up. Then the chat with Lewis & Marnie when he never once suggested that he had behaved badly, was sorry for hurting her ir any responsibility for his actions. He really tried to put the blame on Lillie, think he even said words to the effect that he had to "put up with" her. Of course,we don't know what went on between them & she may not have been a great girlfriend in private but it was the callousnes with which he justified his actions which was uncomfortable. I know Bear lovers will shoot this down, but it really is a strong indicator of sociopathic behaviour and I am convinced he is on that spectrum,”
you are not alone in thinking this
Originally Posted by AnotherPOV:
“He was concentrating on balancing the donuts.”
“He was concentrating on balancing the donuts.”
Does it not give you pause to think that so far he has tried to sabotage almost everything, every task and everyone in the house in the name of Bant-ahhhh -- and now he can't react because he is "playing by the rules ".
And is doing so for the first time in the series ?
Originally Posted by Goggle girl:
“It was the nasty little shrug he gave to Lillie which showed him up. Then the chat with Lewis & Marnie when he never once suggested that he had behaved badly, was sorry for hurting her ir any responsibility for his actions. He really tried to put the blame on Lillie, think he even said words to the effect that he had to "put up with" her. Of course,we don't know what went on between them & she may not have been a great girlfriend in private but it was the callousnes with which he justified his actions which was uncomfortable. I know Bear lovers will shoot this down, but it really is a strong indicator of sociopathic behaviour and I am convinced he is on that spectrum,”
“It was the nasty little shrug he gave to Lillie which showed him up. Then the chat with Lewis & Marnie when he never once suggested that he had behaved badly, was sorry for hurting her ir any responsibility for his actions. He really tried to put the blame on Lillie, think he even said words to the effect that he had to "put up with" her. Of course,we don't know what went on between them & she may not have been a great girlfriend in private but it was the callousnes with which he justified his actions which was uncomfortable. I know Bear lovers will shoot this down, but it really is a strong indicator of sociopathic behaviour and I am convinced he is on that spectrum,”
He's almost textbook going purely on what we've seen in CBB: reckless and irresponsible, no remorse or concern for others' distress, disregard for social norms, unable to sustain relationships, etc.
I don't know what he's like on the outside and what % of this is performing for the cameras though. He could be perfectly nice and mentally sound.... Lily certainly didn't recognise the Bear she's seen. But that's no indication either, since people on that spectrum can also be very charming and deceitful.
I was surprised by how many people were checking HIS feelings afterward as if he was the victim of a mean Big Brother stunt. This is a guy whose girlfriend found out she was dumped only when he told his HMs she was dumped almost immediately after entering the house, having apparently left her with his family, and then he overtly has sex with another woman (no trying to spare Lily's feelings by being low key...nope, they were noisily at it). To add insult to grievous injury, he then has the brass nerve to sit in the garden this week moaning about HER behaviour and once again spelling out to everyone else BUT Lily, that it's over.
That doesn't strike me as the actions of someone looking to entertain, as his fans keep arguing. Those are the actions of someone who doesn't follow any normal moral code and who doesn't seem to give a crap about the feelings of others, even those he's supposed to care about.
Oh, and I didn't buy his upset either...wiping his eyes in the DR and then sniffling in the toilet.....that was clearly part of the performance.
Originally Posted by Goggle girl:
“It was the nasty little shrug he gave to Lillie which showed him up. Then the chat with Lewis & Marnie when he never once suggested that he had behaved badly, was sorry for hurting her ir any responsibility for his actions. He really tried to put the blame on Lillie, think he even said words to the effect that he had to "put up with" her. Of course,we don't know what went on between them & she may not have been a great girlfriend in private but it was the callousnes with which he justified his actions which was uncomfortable. I know Bear lovers will shoot this down, but it really is a strong indicator of sociopathic behaviour and I am convinced he is on that spectrum,”
“It was the nasty little shrug he gave to Lillie which showed him up. Then the chat with Lewis & Marnie when he never once suggested that he had behaved badly, was sorry for hurting her ir any responsibility for his actions. He really tried to put the blame on Lillie, think he even said words to the effect that he had to "put up with" her. Of course,we don't know what went on between them & she may not have been a great girlfriend in private but it was the callousnes with which he justified his actions which was uncomfortable. I know Bear lovers will shoot this down, but it really is a strong indicator of sociopathic behaviour and I am convinced he is on that spectrum,”
I like your post but think sociopathic behaviour does somewhat overthink Bear's behaviour. To me he's just a 'roofless', arrogant, selfish and immature git, to whom I will give no further thought once he exits the studio.
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