Originally Posted by ABCZYX:
“I honestly do think this. I can't remember the last time a HM annoyed me as much as him. He constantly seeks attention in the most childish ways. He's obnoxious and he goads and goads his fellow HMs to upset them, and he doesn't care. If he did, he'd stop, but he just carries on, and all with a smile on his face. It's all just so he can get the airtime he constantly craves.
He seems completely and utterly incapable of putting himself into anyone else's shoes. For those who think he's funny - if you were living with him and he was constantly doing these things both to you and in your presence, would you find him funny then? Because something tells me you wouldn't. So why, just because it's not happening to you personally, does that make his behaviour acceptable?
I have never been able to understand that particular logic of it being okay for someone to do it to someone else, but not to you.
It's not childish and innocent pranks. He knows exactly what he's doing. Pranks stop becoming pranks when the person on the receiving end gets angry and/or upset and when the "prankster" keeps on doing it even when they know that the other person doesn't like it.
He also got sexually involved with Chloe, cheating on his partner. And when his partner came in, he didn't care at all. There made no effort to talk to her and he made no apology, instead nonchalantly shrugging his shoulders at her. He even later blamed her in the Diary Room!
And people are saying that he deserves to win? I've watched BB since the first series where the general consensus was that the nastier housemates didn't deserve to be there and were promptly voted out. But nowadays, it seems like the more fame hungry you are, the less amount of respect you have for others, the more bitchy you are, the more you get involved in public sexual activity, the more anti-social you are, the more you deserve to be there. And if you're a genuinely nice, decent person who has intelligent conversations and don't go round looking for attention or controversy, then you're a terrible housemate and you shouldn't be there. There are impressionable teenagers that watch this show and if they see these type of HMs portrayed as deserving to be in there, they will think that this is the way to get ahead in life.
Some people have said that he should win because at least we've seen him and not the others who are boring. I don't think it's fair to call the others boring. How do we know that they're boring when we haven't even seen enough of them to come to that judgement? If anything, I find Bear boring because he just says and does the same things over and over again.
If he wins, he, like Helen, will have behaved horribly all series and then get rewarded by winning.
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“I honestly do think this. I can't remember the last time a HM annoyed me as much as him. He constantly seeks attention in the most childish ways. He's obnoxious and he goads and goads his fellow HMs to upset them, and he doesn't care. If he did, he'd stop, but he just carries on, and all with a smile on his face. It's all just so he can get the airtime he constantly craves.
He seems completely and utterly incapable of putting himself into anyone else's shoes. For those who think he's funny - if you were living with him and he was constantly doing these things both to you and in your presence, would you find him funny then? Because something tells me you wouldn't. So why, just because it's not happening to you personally, does that make his behaviour acceptable?
I have never been able to understand that particular logic of it being okay for someone to do it to someone else, but not to you.It's not childish and innocent pranks. He knows exactly what he's doing. Pranks stop becoming pranks when the person on the receiving end gets angry and/or upset and when the "prankster" keeps on doing it even when they know that the other person doesn't like it.
He also got sexually involved with Chloe, cheating on his partner. And when his partner came in, he didn't care at all. There made no effort to talk to her and he made no apology, instead nonchalantly shrugging his shoulders at her. He even later blamed her in the Diary Room!
And people are saying that he deserves to win? I've watched BB since the first series where the general consensus was that the nastier housemates didn't deserve to be there and were promptly voted out. But nowadays, it seems like the more fame hungry you are, the less amount of respect you have for others, the more bitchy you are, the more you get involved in public sexual activity, the more anti-social you are, the more you deserve to be there. And if you're a genuinely nice, decent person who has intelligent conversations and don't go round looking for attention or controversy, then you're a terrible housemate and you shouldn't be there. There are impressionable teenagers that watch this show and if they see these type of HMs portrayed as deserving to be in there, they will think that this is the way to get ahead in life.
Some people have said that he should win because at least we've seen him and not the others who are boring. I don't think it's fair to call the others boring. How do we know that they're boring when we haven't even seen enough of them to come to that judgement? If anything, I find Bear boring because he just says and does the same things over and over again.
If he wins, he, like Helen, will have behaved horribly all series and then get rewarded by winning.
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Completely agree OP.
I can hardly watch this now because he dominates so much of the highlights and he has a nasty streak just like HW. I wouldn't put him in the panto villain categorary at all as some do because he takes things too far, just as HW did. They've both had plenty of warnings that we haven't seen, you can be sure of that. Both of these people love making others feel uncomfortable, intimidated, etc. Thoroughly nasty people with no redeeming qualities whatsoever. 👎🏼
the others might as well not be there, the producers are getting their way by only showing Bear to get they want & as usual hook line & sinker (ROLLEYES)
