Originally Posted by GibsonGirl:
“It's not just "jokes about parfait and smoked everything". It's 'jokes' about punching contestants, using voodoo dolls on them, calling them 'bitch face', etc. Those kind of comments have brought the thread down to gutter level. Would you like to have someone 'joke' on the internet or anywhere else about punching you or using a voodoo doll on you or a member of your family? I suspect not, so why do you think it's okay to 'joke' in the same way about the contestants on this show?
I also think you are using deflection by saying that comments about this thread should be taken to a new thread and that the blocking option should be used. Is that so that some of you can blissfully continue with your not so nice comments and tell yourselves that they are just 'in good humour'?”
Actually, it's because it's an interesting topic that's being reduced to a slanging match à la Big Brother topics. I don't watch the show but I sometimes dip into the forum to frighten myself. But that's Internet forums, I suppose.
And I defy you to find a post of mine where I've accused anyone of being bitchy - it happens to be a word I'd never use to describe another woman, as it's so often associated with men trying to shut women down or belittle them. Nor will you find any post of mine 'threatening' violence. You
will find me talking about how someone comes across or how they seem to me because that's how they're presenting themselves - I'm not even saying that's what they're like and I doubt anyone is, because we can't know one way or another. I'm saying that's how they're coming across, which I think in the end is what everyone is saying, which is why they feel free to be colourful in their language. So I'm quite happy with saying I found Elise smug as for most of her cooks she was absolutely sure she'd 'smashed it', didn't take advice, didn't appear to be able to identify any mistakes until after the judging and apparently once she'd switched to dessert was convinced she had perfected it and didn't appear to learn anything. Thats
how it looked to me and a number of others. Could be right, could be wrong. No idea. Nor does anyone who thinks the opposite unless they know the person.
So I have no axe to grind with my suggestion, I'm guilty only of expressing my opinion and of poking fun at people who have chosen to put themselves on an extremely popular reality television show in the hope of winning loads of dosh and getting their 15 minutes of fame. Mea culpa. Don't care. I just find it a pity to reduce an interesting topic to a bad tempered tit-for-tatting exercise.