Lots of them are! I agree with her.

Maybe so. But, she was spot on wasn't she?

Great stuff from Aubrey. She stayed cool and got her point across very well. He was visibly shaking and couldn't take it! Truth hurts wee boy.

I really like Aubrey until yesterdays programme as she was a strong and inteligent gameplayer , before this i didnt see the nasty bitch in her that other fms did. Yesterday i saw it and it wasnt attractive.
Gone off Aubrey.

Bear owned her! lol ..it was brilliant ..woo!!

I couldn't have lasted in that house with Bear. I don't agree that his carry-on is 'entertaining', and I definitely think he can dish it out, but not take it.

And much of what Aubrey said was true...BUT....the sarcastic patronising way she went about it, (reminding me of Shilpa Shetty answering back when Jade Goody and she were arguing)...in my opinion, will have gained some votes for Bear.

Because even I was thinking 'come on, that's very nasty'....

There's no way she'll win now, surely?

But he might!

He SO didn't mate!

I don't agree with the way she spoke to him - unnecessary - and laden with ego.

However, I think she was spot on in the diary room. It is supposed to be the final, they should be celebrating and, to an extent, happy in each other's success.

But, instead, it doesn't feel like a final at all. Ricky and Frankie are being passive to avoid being attacked and Marnie is a follower to Bear's insistence that the whole house dances to whatever tune he chooses to hum.

For Renee and Aubery it's just a torture - an ordeal to be endured for a last few days.

I don't like what she said .. but BB created that scene and have to own the ugly final they have created.

However one feels about Bear, there is no need to denigrate anyone in the way Aubrey did. If Aubrey was truly happy within herself and the confident, accomplished person she claims she is, it just wouldn't be in her to badmouth anybody. Truly happy people don't have that need to humiliate others the way she did. And I am NO fan of Bear, by the way. I just take no comfort in seeing anybody humiliated -- even if he is guilty of the same.

If he had just kept his mouth shut when they were making their beds it wouldnt have come to that.

I think I'll do a transcript of this in a bit, because I sort of want to go over it myself. It's odd reading this thread this morning because I didn't take it as bear being owned at all, I found it all quite sad. I believe "punching downwards" is the term. Telling someone how much more successful you are than them, in both career and personal life, telling them they'll never amount to anything, that they're just a born loser. I don't know what that says about you, it's a little bit "I'm rich and your poor" - I don't want to argue with you, I don't want to irritate you, I don't even want to just call you a dick for being a dick, I want you to know your ****ing place and I want you to know I'm better than you and I want to hurt you.

It's just... Ewwww...

Anyway, maybe I'm wrong. I'll type it all up in a bit and go over it properly.

So let's all just shut up, bend over, take it up the jasksie, and let the bullies win.



NO!

It's OK, there (worryingly) seems to be a section on this forum who love ti blame the victim.

Bear hasnt bullied anyone - bullying is against BB rules.
Bear has just indulged in high jinx and been annoyingly loud.
Reacting the way Aubrey did to people who are just annoying might be understandable but it isnt generally regarded as nice behaviour or condoned in polite circles. Aubreys reaction may be understandable in the restricted confines of the BB house but it isnt big and it isnt clever, in just the same way as some of bears behaviour isnt good.
Bad behaviour is bad whoever does it.

I despair that Bear would ever be seen as the victim and thats the way it seems to be going - its like he punched someone got punched back and expects sympathy!

He has systematically tormented certain housemates and actively target them. He shows a complete lack of respect for anyone - even those he claims to be his frends. In his eyes he is always right and everyone else is in the wrong - on multiple occasions he has said he holds no grudges (which we know he does) after an argument he has started. He takes no responsibility for his actions and everything he has done is for attention and camera time, the cheeky chappy stuff is B/S he is totally fake and it is sad that people fall for it and keep him in.

I can't see how people think he is funny, nothing he has done in that house has made me laugh except when his true face was shown when confronted by the security guard and literally wet himself.

Now to the point, I knew people would attack Aubrey as some of the language she used opened herself up to it but no matter how harsh it needed saying - he needed a serious reality check. Bear and supporting posters criticising her ego is the height of hypocricy - his ego is out of control.

She shut him down and it was great to see someone finally do it, he has shown time and time again he can dish it out without a care of the impact but can't take it.

He is NOT a victim and whilst this CBB had the potential to be great has ruined it.

Oh I wouldn't get bogged down in trying to choose a victim of the piece. In situations like this I see the participants as separate entities to be analysed, their choice of words and their behaviour is telling more about themselves than it is illiciting sympathy for a 'victim'. When bear acts like a childish prick I don't tend to be shedding tears for the recipients of his actions, I'm just thinking 'what a childish prick'. And when Aubrey starts telling him how worthless he is, I'm certainly not crying over poor bear, I'm just thinking "bit overboard there Aubs."

Doesn't need to be winners and losers in every situation. Certainly doesn't always have to be bullies and victims.

All of these gullible people being fooled by stinker Aubrey - I despair.

First thing, Aubrey didn't own anybody. What she did do was to exhibit to everyone what she is all about and was shown up by Bear of all people for what she really is - something she had been trying so hard not to let anyone see.

In one OTT rant, we not only saw her gigantic ego on display but the brutal verbal nastiness of this horrible woman who spits in food and drink and into other people's mouths! Slagging off voters was hardly a great move either from someone who would have us believe she is so intelligent.

Well, she has finally allowed her mask to slip, all because the precious little flower couldn't take a pie in the face. I'm pleased, she has ensured that she will be next out of the CBB house and good riddance. Had she been nominated earlier, she would already be gone.

Let me tell you something....Aubrey is wicked smart and she had Bear's number from day ONE. That girl deserves the crown, hands down!! She plunged the knife and twisted it. Hard. The dufus finally got what was coming to him. THIS is his claim to fame (or rather, infamy). I'm counting down the 15 minutes NOW because he doesn't have any talent to back up that false bravado, he he.

He was literally speechless.

On a side note... Is My5 the worst on-demand service in the UK or what? It never seems to be bloody working when I want it. Transcript will have to wait. Might as well go and do some work or something instead.

It was wonderful and the funny thing is she has revealed his ego and summed him up as a no talent wind up merchant, and he actually thinks he has revealed her.

Bear is a coward and likes picking on women! His target is Rene old enough to be his mum who he ruthlessly attacked! I am glad Aubrey stood up for her self and totally owned Bear! Let's not forget how he cowered to the security guard in his holey shit moment when he broke the diaryroom door.

He is aggressive and is picking on the women of the house! He is not the slightest bit entertaining and finally can enjoy Aubrey owning him in the argument! Well done Aubrey!

Totally agree with all this. Where were the men of the house this series? So disappointed in Ricky and his passive, can't-beat-them-join-them approach - it took a strong woman to deal with Bear - go for the win Aubrey, the only person in there with balls of steel.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ this. Great post

She was rinsing Big Brothers little b!tch out, that is why they wanted her to come to the DR. They couldn't handle their winner being put in his place! Ha ha.

And the way he tried to intimidate her by trying to cut in front of her and she told him to find another way out. That is what bullies do when they haven't got an answer to put you down. They try the move out of my way game. I think there will be skiddies in his boxers after that altercation.