I am not actually seeing what he is doing wrong for all of these talking to's to be quite honest. This is the first year warnings for 'goading' have happened, and warnings for wasting food. I think his talking to about Aubrey's bed was utterly wrong given she did it first and nothing was said. Aubrey did not get a warning for showing actual aggression by lunging into his face as he tried to leave the room, where you can bet your arse if it had been the opposite way round he would have been called to the DR and this forum would want his head on a platter.