Originally Posted by circle game:
“Couldn't resist having a quick look - Gaby clearly didn't like him and he was over-defensive and basically lied.
I thought Ricky, Frankie and Renee all kept their dignity! Whether you like him or not, there is no way that he was a nice person in there!”
That's the thing. He has been spouting off since leaving the house that he was the positive one and everybody else was negative and the public voted for him
because he was positive.
Yet, he created the negativity completely which bouyed up his mood, thus giving him a vaneer of cheeriness. Absolute classic template of a malignant narcissist > They create the chaos to feed off it and empower themselves. He is so up his own arse he can't see he actually needs said people to fuel his narcissistic supply. Without the people he can't create misery. Without the misery > he ceases to exist as a person. He'd dry up and die.
I think for me and some other viewers who have mentioned it here, if you are well aware of these psychological ticks, traits and patterns, when you see it in a housemate on a TV show, it stirs you up because it clearly is not entertainment or just playing around. You don't need a psychology or psychiatry degree to comprehend it.
I know he has a lot of supporters on here and say oh, he's so funny, he's a laugh, and it's a show. But, the thing is, he proves time and time he is actually this person and what makes me angry is > people are only going to get hurt crossing his path. Because that's what these people do. They can't help it. That's why I have never supported anything he does. The kind of psychological abuse he would use on the housemates is akin to how stalkers use on their victims, meaning; never enough evidence to come back on them/or always within the legal remit that they can never be held accountable, but
always enough to send somebody krackerjack, which is what they aim for and get immense pleasure from.