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Old 30-08-2016, 05:38
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I know he's keeping up this act but at the same time I get the impression he does think he's pretty OK. From what I can tell he sees himself as a joker who lightened the mood and is offended by negative reactions...or maybe this is part of the act, I'm confused
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Old 30-08-2016, 05:48
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I know he's keeping up this act but at the same time I get the impression he does think he's pretty OK. From what I can tell he sees himself as a joker who lightened the mood and is offended by negative reactions...or maybe this is part of the act, I'm confused
I'm sure he does. He doesn't seem very self-aware.

I also disagree that its an act.
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Old 30-08-2016, 06:38
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I'm sure he does. He doesn't seem very self-aware.

I also disagree that its an act.
Elements must be though, don't you think, like the toddler voice and his general inappropriateness (eg offering gabby Roslyn a piece of fruit while she's interviewing Ricky)
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Old 30-08-2016, 07:05
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I if it isn't an act then he either has special needs or a mental illness.
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Old 30-08-2016, 08:39
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Does Bear really think hes an Ok guy?
I don't think so, to be honest, not deep down.

That moment when his ex came in, you could see him dying inside
Reminded me of these words in a mono puff song (Don't bother by the way, go with john linnel's solo stuff instead - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42jP6BPEnog )

"I've lost my superpowers
I was invisible
I could just cut myself
Right out my will
I was unsupervised
I had a real good time
Until I,
I hit my head"

Some people can live in that state of arrested development, partying it up home alone without a conscience, kidding themselves that their souls are clean for a very long time before the guilt catches up with them.

He knows he's scum, but he'll kid us all, and more importantly, himself, as long as he can.

You can't hold your arms up and claim "no drama" when karma comes to getcha
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Old 30-08-2016, 08:44
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I'm sure he does. He doesn't seem very self-aware.

I also disagree that its an act.
Absolutely. And the fact that he won has confirmed in his mind that he is OK, better than many others in fact. I'm pretty sure he genuinely thinks he is, in his words, charming. If all of his family have also not only condoned his behaviour, but praised and encouraged it, probably all his life, along with people like Marnie, Lewis & Chloe who, in his mind, have confirmed this.
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Old 30-08-2016, 09:28
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Everyone thinks they are ok.
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Old 30-08-2016, 09:32
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Everyone thinks they are ok.
No they don't - lots of people self-refer for psych services eg counselling.
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Old 30-08-2016, 12:28
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No they don't - lots of people self-refer for psych services eg counselling.
Most people know when they're being d*cks, even if they don't agree they'll respond to the reaction of others. He keeps on saying how positive and fun he is, at first I thought he was being kinda ironic but you can see the bitterness when people don't agree.

Even in Helen Woods twitter profile one of her descriptions is can be an a*rse hole. Think he'd come across so much better if he jus owned it.
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Old 30-08-2016, 12:33
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Most people know when they're being d*cks, even if they don't agree they'll respond to the reaction of others. He keeps on saying how positive and fun he is, at first I thought he was being kinda ironic but you can see the bitterness when people don't agree.

Even in Helen Woods twitter profile one of her descriptions is can be an a*rse hole. Think he'd come across so much better if he jus owned it.
Agree - same goes for some of his fans who are STILL offering up some of the most ridiculous excuses I've ever read in this gaff.

It's pitiful.

Either he's so thick and lacking in self-awareness to an astounding degree (which would suggest some kind of psycological impairment) or he absolutely knows he's being an arsehole and doens't GAF.
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