Originally Posted by KatrinaK:
“I understand what you're saying, really i do but how many people honestly, when extreamly intoxicated, say I wanna have sex or yes, let's do it etc? You hear about, know, or see situations when two extreamly drunk people rip each other's clothes off and they put it down to a drunken one night stand the next morning. For the record, I'm not saying that happened to Ellie and I'm not taking anything away from how she feels. I'm not even saying that nick didn't rape her. For all we know, he did but for me, from what little we did see I'm not sure either way. It's too ambiguous but each to its own.”
But the point is, men (and women for that matter) should understand that a person who is that intoxicated is not able to give consent.
I don't think there's more to this scene then what we saw. I don't think that down the line we're going to learn that she became a little more conscious and consented. I think they cut where they did for a reason.
If Ellie had been ripping his clothes off then it would have indicated her intent to sleep with him, obviously. But she didn't. So there's no point in even discussing the issue in relation to that. Yes, people get caught up in the moment but it takes one second to ask if a person is sure and to get an answer. Its really not that ambiguous. Surely its just common bloody sense if you've just met the person.
Anyway, I don't mean to criticise you personally. There's nothing wrong with trying to understand both sides, I suppose. Although I'm personally unable to do that in this case because it seems clear cut to me at this point.
All I can say is that I hope this storyline changes minds.