Originally Posted by gorlagon:
“This doesn't mean that people shouldn't be pointed in the right direction so that they don't cause offence.
"Coloured" is a term coined by white people during times of segregation and oppression. If communities of colour wish it to be consigned to the past, it should be consigned to the past. Those still using it because they don't know this (although I do wonder if such people have been living under a rock rather than in multicultural Britain) don't want to give offence, I am sure. Consequently, it's beneficial to provide them with the terms that communities of colour have chosen for themselves - POC, black, Asian, black Britsh, British Asian, etc.
Language matters.”
So the term 'communities/people of colour' is acceptable, whereas 'coloured' isn't? Why? Because someone decided to take offence at the latter term and to promote the former, thereby giving them licence to 'PC-shame' anyone who didn't get the memo. It's practically the same term. Do you not see the hidden agenda there? (I suggest you see the Wikipedia article on 'Coloureds' to better understand the continued use of the term in South Africa.)
Of course language is powerful, but constantly changing what is and isn't an acceptable word is just a misguided way of trying to achieve an artificial sense of ownership and power over other people's thoughts, without actually examining the context of what they say or the wider points they're making.
A person doesn't own the language used to describe them, and to pretend they do is just an artificial form of enfranchisement, which ignores real forms of powerlessness. It gets to the point where people simply don't want to make threads about real issues like this, because people shout them down over their choice of language; that's the end of politeness and the beginning of the thought police, and it certainly won't stop real racism, even if might push it underground sometimes.
None of us owns language. For example I don't really like the word 'straight' because it implies deviance on the part of gay people, but I'm not going to start a campaign to get the term 'outlawed' or insist people don't use it around me, because I would rather hear the content of what they're saying, and I know that such actions wouldn't affect prejudice anyway.
A while ago a white panelist on 'Question Time' used the perfectly 'acceptable' term 'Afro-Caribbean' to refer to black people with African ancestry but later from the Caribbean islands. A black woman in the audience decided this term was offensive and that he should be saying something else (she wasn't sure what though, she eventually settled on African Caribbean), but she made sure she was suitability outraged and got a grovelling white-guilt apology, which was the point. It's almost as if she felt the panelist had no right to refer to those people at all. So yes, language is powerful, and people are abusing that power with misplaced outrage.