Originally Posted by Kate Ford fan:
“Shakil behaves like a pelutant child most of the time and that behaviour simply isn't acceptable especially at the age of 16. And that age I think at that age you should be expected to carry yourself in a reasonably mature and respectable manner.
And to top it all off, Shakil has zero respect for women and only thinks of them as objects that he can get his leg over.
A lot of boys years younger than Shakil have more respect for woman than he does and his behaviour is pretty inexcusable. Hopefully Bex dumps the creep. Complete desperation and downright unpleasantness isn't an attractive quality in a person.”
I think it comes down to this idea of toxic masculinity. We live in a society which puts pressure on male and females to act a certain way, and teenagers are more susceptible to that pressure. I'm not sure it's true to say that Shakil has zero respect for women; he has been quite sweet to Bex on a couple of occasions in a way that's felt genuine to me, but his overriding desire is to be like other young guys who he probably thinks are going at it like rabbits. Remember how much he idolised Mark Jr when he was with him, probing him on his sex life in America and taking it personally when he saw how easily Mark was able to talk to Bex and Louise?
I think he's also got some major parental issues going on (Carmel clearly favours Kush, moving away from Shaks to live with him, barely even mentioning him in her first few months on the show, and even now he lives with her she rarely talks to him warmly in the way she does Kush. On top of that, he is openly resentful about the way his dad ignores him most of the time.) We had that scene where he opened up to Martin that he wanted someone like him as a father figure because he has no positive male role model in his life, and I think that says a lot about him. Don't forget that his dad dumped his mum for a much younger woman, and his mum is apparently quite sex mad and flings herself at any bloke that shows an interest. He probably has an over-inflated idea of how important sex is as a result.
I am not trying to excuse Shakil's behaviour; he was reprehensible last night. I do think the situation is a bit more complicated, however, then people on here are making out.