Originally Posted by Mrs Checks:
“The thing is though, that some people's ideas of what is acceptable criticism and what is not completely varies.
Some people seem to get upset at genuine, valid criticism of technique and performance.
Others seem to magnify criticism and then claim everyone is being horrible about their favourite, when usually it's no more than a handful of people on one thread. The reverse happens too, with some people claiming all fans of X are the same, usually in a negative way. Both these are issues to me because they stifle genuine discussion.
There is also the fact that, when it comes to personalities and human behaviour, we all see things differently as our assessments are filtered through our own life experiences.
For example, some people may find Louise dull whereas others find her sweet and shy, and really we all have to accept each other's opinions in that case because we can't prove otherwise. I see people getting upset about this kind of thing a lot, though.
I don't know. I don't think it's that bad on here at all but I think there is a lot of difference in boundaries of criticism along with levels of fanaticism and that's what causes any issues.”
I love all of this post, but the final line pretty much puts it in a nutshell.