Originally Posted by ABCZYX:
“No, I was just asking for examples if you had any. ”
Ok. And (just to be clear) there were some examples in my post.
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“It was a bad question. Also, Rachel had just come out of the house after three months and won, which she wasn't expecting to and told Davina she still felt like she was dreaming at the start of the interview. Also, there were lots of people shouting different things at her when Davina asked that question, so I don't think a lot of people would blame her for not being able to come up with an answer to such a left field question.
Davina made it worse by dragging out the silence. She should have said something like, "Do you know what? It's your money - you spend the money whichever way you like. Moving on..."
She should never have asked that question. I understand why she did because of the conversation that had happened in the house, but she shouldn't have asked it.”
In what way was it a bad question? Why shouldn't Davina have asked it? Contestants in tv shows sometimes discuss splitting the prize, and in at least one case (The Search) they actually did it. In any case, I'm not blaming Rachel for not being able to come up with an answer; that would make no sense, since she did come up with an answer.
It seems a legitimate question to me. There was a conversation about splitting in the house, and Davina mentioned that, first asked the other HMs, and then asked Rachel if she'd considered it.
Davina didn't drag out the silence. She gave Rachel a chance to answer. Surely that's better than not giving her a chance, or interrupting.
I don't quite agree that "there were lots of people shouting different things at her when Davina asked that question". Some people shouted "no" or "don't do it". One person said something longer (I couldn't make out what it was). And while there were some other shouts later, there were also periods of silence. Rachel also had time to think while Davina was talking to the other HMs about it.
Someone saying they think they're dreaming in that sort of context is a bit of a cliché; they don't actually feel like they're dreaming.
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“I'm not referring to you personally, but I can remember a lot of people criticising her for the Saddam Hussein moment, almost as if she had said she had agreed with the things he had done, when she hadn't. She obviously didn't agree with the things he had done, but didn't fully know enough about him to say very much. IIRC, she did say that she didn't know a lot about politics. Rex told her that Margaret Thatcher removed free school milk and she said that she definitely disagreed with that.”
A lot of people criticised her for the Saddam Hussein moment because she was so reluctant to express an opinion even about someone like that, and because her reason was that she didn't know him. (How does she manage to vote in elections, if she even does vote?)
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“Really? I think there were loads of moments where she was like "VT Rachel" - chatty, enthusiastic and upbeat. There's examples in the Rachel's Real Best Bits link which used to get linked to a lot here.”
It matters that I didn't say it was the only moment when she was like VT Rachel and instead that it was "the time she came closest to living up to the talkative image presented in her VT".
Remember that in her VT Rachel said "I am annoying. I know I am, because I talk a lot" and a bit later "'cause people think I'm on drugs as well, just because I'm so energetic."
Anyway, while there are times when Rachel was like something in her VT, I don't think it can be credibly maintained any more that in-house Rachel wasn't different from VT Rachel, because even Rachel's mother has given explanations for why she was different, and that wouldn't make sense if there was no difference.
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“Like I said before, I don't remember everything she said for the reason I've already mentioned. But about Luke - what I do remember is that as much as she didn't like being part of them, she did join in on at least one group discussion on who people least wanted to win and she said Luke.”
I don't think anyone has even claimed that Rachel talked with Luke (or with various other HMs) in the way she did with Jen & Bex and with Lisa.
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“Going back to the "Rachel's Real Best Bits" webpage, it does say that when Lisa came back to the house after she broke out, she said that she hadn't been sad to see her go because she knew about the time she slagged off Kat, Rex, Darnell and herself behind their backs with Luke as she'd overheard them, and that she thought she'd been particularly nasty to Kat on the night that she sang "Shut up!" to her face. None of this was shown on the HL show, however.”
Rachel had a long conversation with Lisa. I'm not absolutely sure it was the same one you're talking about, but it covered the things Rachel said she had a problem with. It was too long for all of it to be in the highlights, but some of it was, and BB even edited it misleadingly to make it seem Rachel had left Lisa speechless.
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“I know we've talked about this before, but when Rachel said at the start of the video that she'd said what she wanted to say, I think she was meaning, "that's why I wanted to come in here and speak to you", not "I've finished speaking, end of conversation".
In reference to Bex not wanting a "happy house", Jen said that Bex meant that she wanted people to be themselves and that if they were going round with the attitude that everything in the house was happy and positive, (etc), then they were being fake and that it was winding Bex up. But what's ironic is that Bex, (and Jen) had been bitching about certain HMs behind their backs - even that very day! And unless I'm mistaken, bitching about people behind their backs is the very definition of being fake. That shows that they were either lying when they said that they weren't fake, of that they were really lacking in self-awareness.
I don't think it's a case of Rachel not being able or willing to understand that the "happy" house song was annoying. What she was trying to say was that if Bex didn't like it and found it annoying, then she should either walk away or go and speak in the Diary Room, and not go bitching about it behind people's backs, which would just stir things up and create a negative environment to live in.”
When Rachel said she'd said what she'd wanted to say, I think it's pretty clear that she meant she'd said what she wanted to say, and not that she'd said one thing she'd wanted to say but had a lot more to add to it so you'd better set aside half an hour for the rest. (Though to be fair, the first time Rachel said it, the one at the start of the video, it may have started up again because Stu arrived and someone (Stu?) said "what's the matter, like?")
In the early part of the conversation (so far as we can tell from the videos), there's nothing about "whispering" (contrary to numerous claims that that's what the talk was about).
It's just about things like Bex being annoyed by Kat singing and saying (according to Rachel) that she didn't want a happy house. Bex says that isn't what she said; in any case, it isn't what she meant, and Jen agrees, adding "what she's saying is she doesn't want people going happy happy house and she doesn't want it to be a false environment".
Rachel really doesn't seem to get that Happy House can be annoying; she says "I like Kat singing, and other people like Kat singing; Kat singing cheers people up." I don't think there's any time in the whole long conversation where Rachel shows she understands that it can be annoying or that it's impossible to get away from it in so small a house. (And by that point in bb9, it looked like Happy House was sometimes being deliberately sung as a way to wind up the HMs who didn't like it.)
Rachel saying "just walk away"
shows she doesn't get it (or is pretending not to). You cannot walk far enough away, in the BB house, so that you won't hear it.
I think Jen explains it pretty well. There's what I quoted above; and, also about what Bex meant, "she wants everyone to be themselves and be normal and not purposely try to be happy when really you're not."
Plus this: "when you live with someone for 24 hours a day there's no way of getting out of this house, and when people are like purposely repeating and singing the same thing over and over again -- it could be any song, it could be any song in the world, and eventually it's going to wind you up to a certain extent."
Rachel didn't -- or couldn't -- or wouldn't -- take it in.