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EE: Is it about time Lee manned-up?
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Clackers
16-11-2016
He is being harrassed and humiliated by that Oz guy which is a blatant discretion of the Health and Safety at Work Act, 1974, not to mention being discriminated against by a boss who spies on him on social media.

If my boss did that I would tell him to F off and walk out. Lee needs to man -up before he loses Whitney.
bumpandgrind
16-11-2016
He's got depression and you clearly have no idea about the illness if you think he can just "man up" and snap out of it.
Ancalagon
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by Clackers:
“He is being harrassed and humiliated by that Oz guy which is a blatant discretion of the Health and Safety at Work Act, 1974, not to mention being discriminated against by a boss who spies on him on social media.

If my boss did that I would tell him to F off and walk out. Lee needs to man -up before he loses Whitney.”

Please, please tell me this is a joke?

If not, welcome to the 21st century, I suggest you educate yourself on mental health conditions and how that can effect people before you comment further.
Clackers
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by bumpandgrind:
“He's got depression and you clearly have no idea about the illness if you think he can just "man up" and snap out of it.”

If you suffer from depression and your work colleagues are deliberately making it worse, then you will have grounds for constructive dismissal when you leave. Why is Lee being such a puzzie and allowing his colleagues and boss to walk all over him?
Ancalagon
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by Clackers:
“If you suffer from depression and your work colleagues are deliberately making it worse, then you will have grounds for constructive dismissal when you leave. Why is Lee being such a puzzie and allowing his colleagues and boss to walk all over him?”

I don't know why I am responding to what is clearly a troll thread, however, Lee has not disclosed to his employers that he suffers with depression and to be honest, I don't think he has even connected his illness with his current state together in his mind yet.
_elly001
16-11-2016
Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!
Ancalagon
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by _elly001:
“Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!”

Great post
hello.member
16-11-2016
I sense this thread will end with a padlock..
joe gillott
16-11-2016
He is suffering depression. His self esteem is too low. He doesn't want tk risk getting sacked by reporting it which would anger Whitney. Its about time everyone else stopped pressuring him and encourage him to open up.
joe gillott
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by _elly001:
“Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!”

Wish we had a like button here!
SULLA
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by joe gillott:
“He is suffering depression. His self esteem is too low. He doesn't want tk risk getting sacked by reporting it which would anger Whitney. Its about time everyone else stopped pressuring him and encourage him to open up.”

That can't happen while he is telling porkies.
vaslav37
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by bumpandgrind:
“He's got depression and you clearly have no idea about the illness if you think he can just "man up" and snap out of it.”

Good Post
Adrian_Ward1
16-11-2016
Sorry but he has depression
kitkat1971
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by _elly001:
“Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!”

Fantastic X
sw2963
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by _elly001:
“Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!”

So good
Keyser_Soze1
16-11-2016
Originally Posted by _elly001:
“Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!”

Brilliant.

As for the OP attitudes like that are why so many working class lads have destroyed their entire lives self medicating with drugs or alcohol trying to be a 'real man'.

It's too late for some - Lee's suicide will educate people like yourself.

I see Lee and his eyes are like a hurt, wounded and bewildered wild animal - DBH is doing the story true justice.

Why get rid of him so we can have endless Philth storylines SOC?
acid rain
17-11-2016
Lee doesn't have the energy to defend himself as his depression has drained him.

Whitney married Lee in sickness and in health so I don't think he'll lose her.
danyell
17-11-2016
Originally Posted by Keyser_Soze1:
“Brilliant.

As for the OP attitudes like that are why so many working class lads have destroyed their entire lives self medicating with drugs or alcohol trying to be a 'real man'.

It's too late for some - Lee's suicide will educate people like yourself.

I see Lee and his eyes are like a hurt, wounded and bewildered wild animal - DBH is doing the story true justice.

Why get rid of him so we can have endless Philth storylines SOC?”

We don't know for sure he's going to commit suicide.
Harlowe
17-11-2016
Originally Posted by Clackers:
“He is being harrassed and humiliated by that Oz guy which is a blatant discretion of the Health and Safety at Work Act, 1974, not to mention being discriminated against by a boss who spies on him on social media.

If my boss did that I would tell him to F off and walk out. Lee needs to man -up before he loses Whitney.”

Because depression is deliberating illness that most people hide from people around them because of the stigma that surrounds it, for some it hard to admit when things are falling apart and it doesn't care who you are or how you feeling it will attack you at any moment, I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

If it was as easy as manning up everyone would do it.
Evilredzebra
17-11-2016
Originally Posted by Clackers:
“He is being harrassed and humiliated by that Oz guy which is a blatant discretion of the Health and Safety at Work Act, 1974, not to mention being discriminated against by a boss who spies on him on social media.

If my boss did that I would tell him to F off and walk out. Lee needs to man -up before he loses Whitney.”

I think this post shows why this storyline is a good one. Lee has depression. Friends of mine have been told to man up, snap out of it, have a word with yourself. It's not that simple. I'm finding it hard to watch as it's making me think I should have realised those friends of mine needed me a lot sooner than I did step up.
Mel94
17-11-2016
Originally Posted by _elly001:
“Hell yeah, it's time he manned* up!

*M-anage to open up about how he's feeling with a relative who loves him
A-dmit that he needs help
N-ot put unnecessary pressure on himself due to society's ridiculous enforcement of gender roles
N-ever listen to people who say things like 'man up' to a man with depression
E-ducate himself on the help he can receive from his GP.
D-ecide to take small, manageable steps on his road to recovery, one day at a time.

Manning up is the best!”

Brilliant post Elly. Did you think of it yourself, or is it some kind of official thing like F.A.S.T for strokes?
Keyser_Soze1
17-11-2016
Originally Posted by Harlowe:
“Because depression is deliberating illness that most people hide from people around them because of the stigma that surrounds it, for some it hard to admit when things are falling apart and it doesn't care who you are or how you feeling it will attack you at any moment, I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

If it was as easy as manning up everyone would do it.”

Yeah and if it was so simple they would not jump off bridges, hang themselves or take overdoses either.

Life is very tough for some blokes - 'manning up' is hard when you have fallen apart - as you rightly say.
Broken_Arrow
17-11-2016
I think it's time he womanned up.

Not sure what that would involve but imagine it might require he tucks his willy between his legs.
_elly001
17-11-2016
Originally Posted by Mel94:
“Brilliant post Elly. Did you think of it yourself, or is it some kind of official thing like F.A.S.T for strokes?”

Thank you! I thought of it myself in response to Clackers' post, which annoyed me immensely. I'm relieved that people liked it and didn't think I was being offensive.
priscilla
17-11-2016
What he needs to do is leave already! Why do they annouce exits so early then makes us wait forever until it actually happens. I thought his wedding would be the last we see of him.
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