Originally Posted by Adam_Burke1:
“Surely he should know how to budget as many of us have to or is this wanton disregard of money that he has to pay back going to be bundled into the depression storyline. As much as Mick's a little dense and Linda too suffocating, they seem to be more understanding and sympathetic then say Philth and Shirley although that's not saying much.
The point I'm making is that Lee's dad isn't a nasty, uncaring one so again, the storyline falls down. Lee could confide in Johnny or even Shirl and does have family members who can help.”
It's not as simple as knowing how to budget. Lee knows he isn't earning enough for them to get a flat or even gave the wedding Whitney wanted but his self worth is so low that he feels ge will lose her if he can't give her what he feels she wants and deserves. So he takes ever more desperate measures to give her what she wants (the loan, stealing the money, committing to the flat) without thinking of what will happen next. He is not thinking ahead. Rationality and reasoning don't enter into this. If they did, Lee would be able to see that his family,including Whitney, love him for him, not the job he has or money he earns or home and things he can provide and they would understand and help him if he told them the truth.
But speaking from experience, you can't see tge wood from the trees when severely depressed and not talking to people has little to do with how good or nice a parent, spouse, sibling or friend are. It is about you and only you.
Building up debt is actually a very common.thing with depression.
Everything about this comes back to the depression for me. He's not
Performing well in his job because. He is unsure of himself. He's not standing up for himself in an effective way because his emotions are all over the place. He won't try and get another job because he doesn't think he is capabke of better. He can't talk.to his family because he doesn't want them tosee what he belives to be the truth,that he is a failure. He can't make love to Whitney because he thinks she is out of his league and he doesn't deserve her. It goes on and on.
I think the actor is playing it very well. It's subtle but it's in his body language and eyes.