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Old 29-11-2016, 16:35
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Blame the awful man's several days of infantile boundaryless behaviour, not the campmates or viewers who didn't enjoy having to suffer it and watch a middle aged man making such a childish idiot of himself.
Some of us without any RTV based admiration or knowledge of who this person is, apart from an embarrassing cringeworthy mess to begin with. Whose behaviour and tantrums even his wife mocked and laughed at and revealed more of his infantility. I can only assume she fails to understand him too.

There's zero comparison between him hosting a scripted and controlled reality show and his personal spontaneous interaction and glaring lack of adult ability to relate to 11 other people he had to live and cooperate with in an isolated, challenging and deprived environment. Where do you or anyone else even begin to assume they can be compared?
only many of us didnt see it like that, you are trying to justify your vitriol towards him.

quite easy to compare.... just look at his smiley face, jokey persona, yes he might be a man baby, he might not interact with others easily at first, that didnt deserve the nasty comments made towards him...its martin off homes under the hammer ffs, not hitler.
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Old 29-11-2016, 17:13
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only many of us didnt see it like that, you are trying to justify your vitriol towards him.

quite easy to compare.... just look at his smiley face, jokey persona, yes he might be a man baby, he might not interact with others easily at first, that didnt deserve the nasty comments made towards him...its martin off homes under the hammer ffs, not hitler.
Well said. I genuinely don't understand the attitude many have towards him on here. Agreed, he didn't come across well at first, but he entered the camp with Danny, and I can see how he might have felt eclipsed by Danny's strong personality which at times came across as aggressive and rude. Very difficult to deal with when you are joining a camp of people who have become a close-knit group.

I think Martin is doing extremely well now and he's getting my vote.
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Old 29-11-2016, 17:30
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Blame the awful man's several days of infantile boundaryless behaviour, not the campmates or viewers who didn't enjoy having to suffer it and watch a middle aged man making such a childish idiot of himself.
Some of us without any RTV based admiration or knowledge of who this person is, apart from an embarrassing cringeworthy mess to begin with. Whose behaviour and tantrums even his wife mocked and laughed at and revealed more of his infantility. I can only assume she fails to understand him too.

There's zero comparison between him hosting a scripted and controlled reality show and his personal spontaneous interaction and glaring lack of adult ability to relate to 11 other people he had to live and cooperate with in an isolated, challenging and deprived environment. Where do you or anyone else even begin to assume they can be compared?
@ the revisionism on here! It's like the nightmare Martin never existed and was entirely a figment of our mean and begrudging imaginations! Bad us.

Honestly, If I were a Martin fan (and I kind of am now, despite myself!), I'd be praising him for the way he's redeemed himself rather than fiercely and illogically - considering the evidence to the contrary - denying his past!

Also, a good redemption is a very handy thing to have under your belt on a RTV show...
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Old 29-11-2016, 17:36
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only many of us didnt see it like that, you are trying to justify your vitriol towards him.

quite easy to compare.... just look at his smiley face, jokey persona, yes he might be a man baby, he might not interact with others easily at first, that didnt deserve the nasty comments made towards him...its martin off homes under the hammer ffs, not hitler.
From what I've read most FMs are saying what you're saying....man baby, poor social skills & people are slowly warming to him, only they've managed to say so in a less aggressive manner.
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Old 29-11-2016, 17:48
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@ the revisionism on here! It's like the nightmare Martin never existed and was entirely a figment of our mean and begrudging imaginations! Bad us.

Honestly, If I were a Martin fan (and I kind of am now, despite myself!), I'd be praising him for the way he's redeemed himself rather than fiercely and illogically - considering the evidence to the contrary - denying his past!

Also, a good redemption is a very handy thing to have under your belt on a RTV show...
The camp-mates seem to be seeing a better side of him and moving on, so why can't we? I don't think anyone is denying that he was a bit of a pain at first, well I'm not anyway.
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Old 29-11-2016, 17:55
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@ the revisionism on here! It's like the nightmare Martin never existed and was entirely a figment of our mean and begrudging imaginations! Bad us.
You must truly have led a sheltered life if you think Martin was a nightmare!

As mush said 'its Martin off HUTH - not fing Hitler'

He was quirky and funny and a little odd - but by no stretch of the imagination a nightmare.

Having said that - now that he has been assimilated by the Borg Collective that is the rest of the camp - I suspect he will lose votes!
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:01
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@ the revisionism on here! It's like the nightmare Martin never existed and was entirely a figment of our mean and begrudging imaginations! Bad us.

Honestly, If I were a Martin fan (and I kind of am now, despite myself!), I'd be praising him for the way he's redeemed himself rather than fiercely and illogically - considering the evidence to the contrary - denying his past!

Also, a good redemption is a very handy thing to have under your belt on a RTV show...
I agree and the campmates and every commentator and even his own wife LOL, that's the most amusing part!

I'm not sure why it's so bad to be honest about what we've all seen and then acknowledge someone doing well and growing up a bit on a reality show and it won't stop me either
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:05
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The camp-mates seem to be seeing a better side of him and moving on, so why can't we? I don't think anyone is denying that he was a bit of a pain at first, well I'm not anyway.
Why are you directing that at me? Have I not just more or less said exactly that in the post you've quoted?

I'm actually really glad he's turned things round.
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:21
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I don't remember ever slating him like I would if Hitler was in camp putting innocent people to death, I just took the piss coz he was a lazy **** trying to get out of carting some water a few yards
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:22
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Why are you directing that at me? Have I not just more or less said exactly that in the post you've quoted?

I'm actually really glad he's turned things round.
It was just a general remark responding to some of the negativity on here, and not specifically directed at you. I didn't even realise I'd quoted your post.
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:30
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I don't remember ever slating him like I would if Hitler was in camp putting innocent people to death, I just took the piss coz he was a lazy **** trying to get out of carting some water a few yards
If only he was a young Emmerdale actor who, shall we say, 'finds the basic manipulation of abstract concepts somewhat problematic'. Then his water-carting laziness would be mysteriously overlooked by the camp and audience.
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:37
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I'm not sure why it's so bad to be honest about what we've all seen and then acknowledge someone doing well and growing up a bit on a reality show and it won't stop me either
Here's to being annoying but necessary flies in the ointment.

It was just a general remark responding to some of the negativity on here, and not specifically directed at you. I didn't even realise I'd quoted your post.
Ah ok.
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Old 29-11-2016, 18:51
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only many of us didnt see it like that, you are trying to justify your vitriol towards him.

quite easy to compare.... just look at his smiley face, jokey persona, yes he might be a man baby, he might not interact with others easily at first, that didnt deserve the nasty comments made towards him...its martin off homes under the hammer ffs, not hitler.

Hitler? Where did you dig that idea up from? Even more fantasy.

How insulting do you need to be? Do you know who Hitler was?
There's absolutely zero comparison between the two shows regardless of how much you try to claim otherwise.
You're very eager to say anything to overprotect someone you don't know, His nastiness and childish behaviour deserved every criticism he got and oh my, hasn't he changed for the better as a result. Good for him!

His own wife "saw it like that". Two of her comments, he can be a nightmare and he regularly chucks his toys out of his cot. Yet you know better than his wife? Shouldn't you let her know how deluded she is too?
Obviously she doesn't need to con herself or make any meaningless false comparisons and attempts to overprotect a man she actually does know very well indeed. Pesky honest wives ey!

You see it how you wish just as I do and I will comment on him and anyone esle as I see fit. I prefer realism and giving credit where it's due. Good for Martin and he's acknowledged he was coming across as insulting and arrogant. It's good to see any uncomfortably needy, defensive emotionally stuck adult growing into a healthier and happier state of maturity. He's far more able to relax and enjoy himself and without question, none of it could happen if he was with people he hasn't learnt he can trust. Credit to them too.
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Old 30-11-2016, 09:33
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From what I've read most FMs are saying what you're saying....man baby, poor social skills & people are slowly warming to him, only they've managed to say so in a less aggressive manner.
..... but those things can be done by being a clown, or by being nasty. some here obviously see him as nasty when in reality hes not, hes a clown.

Hitler? Where did you dig that idea up from? Even more fantasy.

How insulting do you need to be? Do you know who Hitler was?
There's absolutely zero comparison between the two shows regardless of how much you try to claim otherwise.
You're very eager to say anything to overprotect someone you don't know, His nastiness and childish behaviour deserved every criticism he got and oh my, hasn't he changed for the better as a result. Good for him!

His own wife "saw it like that". Two of her comments, he can be a nightmare and he regularly chucks his toys out of his cot. Yet you know better than his wife? Shouldn't you let her know how deluded she is too?
Obviously she doesn't need to con herself or make any meaningless false comparisons and attempts to overprotect a man she actually does know very well indeed. Pesky honest wives ey!

You see it how you wish just as I do and I will comment on him and anyone esle as I see fit. I prefer realism and giving credit where it's due. Good for Martin and he's acknowledged he was coming across as insulting and arrogant. It's good to see any uncomfortably needy, defensive emotionally stuck adult growing into a healthier and happier state of maturity. He's far more able to relax and enjoy himself and without question, none of it could happen if he was with people he hasn't learnt he can trust. Credit to them too.
i sometimes wonder whether people who seem to spend all day on the internet have any grasp on reality...

re hitler..... the vitriol he was getting by some nasty people on here is what you would expect someone as vile as hitler would get, not mild mannered martin off huth!

so what if he chucks his toys out regularly? does that make him the awful nasty person you say he is?... its his WIFE ffs, who must see far far more nice things about her love then nasty/awful. you realise of course that citing his wife is evidence against your pov... they wouldnt be married IF he was the 'awful' person you still try to justify him being.
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Old 30-11-2016, 09:34
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martin being in the girls team was great last night.... made us LOL.
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Old 30-11-2016, 10:22
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Hitler? Where did you dig that idea up from? Even more fantasy.

How insulting do you need to be? Do you know who Hitler was?
There's absolutely zero comparison between the two shows regardless of how much you try to claim otherwise.
You're very eager to say anything to overprotect someone you don't know, His nastiness and childish behaviour deserved every criticism he got and oh my, hasn't he changed for the better as a result. Good for him!

His own wife "saw it like that". Two of her comments, he can be a nightmare and he regularly chucks his toys out of his cot. Yet you know better than his wife? Shouldn't you let her know how deluded she is too?
Obviously she doesn't need to con herself or make any meaningless false comparisons and attempts to overprotect a man she actually does know very well indeed. Pesky honest wives ey!

You see it how you wish just as I do and I will comment on him and anyone esle as I see fit. I prefer realism and giving credit where it's due. Good for Martin and he's acknowledged he was coming across as insulting and arrogant. It's good to see any uncomfortably needy, defensive emotionally stuck adult growing into a healthier and happier state of maturity. He's far more able to relax and enjoy himself and without question, none of it could happen if he was with people he hasn't learnt he can trust. Credit to them too.
This is actually a very fair post Anne. I know we've had our differences but I have more respect for you as a fellow FM than somebody who goes bulldozing through threads with aggression and calling posters idiots whilst insinuating they are thick.
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Old 30-11-2016, 10:22
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Love it when he s laughing, what an amazing turnaround this man has had.. so happy for him.
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Old 30-11-2016, 10:29
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Love it when he s laughing, what an amazing turnaround this man has had.. so happy for him.
Hi calamity....me too. I can actually feel myself smiling with him. Even something so simp!e as him nearly falling off his hammock can be hilarious
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Old 30-11-2016, 10:36
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It would be such a shame if he goes tonight or tomorrow... And I have a bad feeling he might.

He is the only campmate that's had anything close to the dreaded J-word, there I said it.

After a nightmare first episode in terms of how he came across and his interpersonal relationship with everyone else there, he has really come out of his shell and he's the only one there that has a genuine, legit personality that isn't covered by a veneer of camera-pouting fakery. The experience has done him good. Genuinely.
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Old 30-11-2016, 10:44
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It would be such a shame if he goes tonight or tomorrow... And I have a bad feeling he might.

He is the only campmate that's had anything close to the dreaded J-word, there I said it.

After a nightmare first episode in terms of how he came across and his interpersonal relationship with everyone else there, he has really come out of his shell and he's the only one there that has a genuine, legit personality that isn't covered by a veneer of camera-pouting fakery. The experience has done him good. Genuinely.
Seeing camp mates evolve is akin to seeing celebs improve each week on SCD. Surely this is the main purpose of these shows so why can't the producers just let things be and take their natural course? Every year, there are complaints about favouritism on these shows.
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Old 30-11-2016, 11:02
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Martin irritates me, he's Hermione from Harry Potter "It's Levi-O-sa!!!!".

In saying that he's a pretentious, overly sensitive, desperate to fit in with the cool kids twonk, he's second to someone else in there for me in who makes me skin itch most.

Also we are only judging by the gang this year, who've been a great bunch, he'd never get on any "worst campmates ever" list.
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Old 30-11-2016, 11:34
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i sometimes wonder whether people who seem to spend all day on the internet have any grasp on reality...

re hitler..... the vitriol he was getting by some nasty people on here is what you would expect someone as vile as hitler would get, not mild mannered martin off huth!

so what if he chucks his toys out regularly? does that make him the awful nasty person you say he is?... its his WIFE ffs, who must see far far more nice things about her love then nasty/awful. you realise of course that citing his wife is evidence against your pov... they wouldnt be married IF he was the 'awful' person you still try to justify him being.
Reality.
How to respond to someone who clearly hasn't read and comprehended a post and instead needs to carry on indulging in more negativity, melodrama, fantasy and vacuous insults.......sounds familiar. A clue, it's another name beginning with M

More "reality". Finding some way to not need the constant use of arrogance and insults against FM's would be a good place to start discovering some of the pleasing benefits of reality.
Self help, just as Martin's done, for that extra appeal.
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Old 30-11-2016, 11:46
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It would be such a shame if he goes tonight or tomorrow... And I have a bad feeling he might.

He is the only campmate that's had anything close to the dreaded J-word, there I said it.

After a nightmare first episode in terms of how he came across and his interpersonal relationship with everyone else there, he has really come out of his shell and he's the only one there that has a genuine, legit personality that isn't covered by a veneer of camera-pouting fakery. The experience has done him good. Genuinely.
Yes, I think we're seeing the real Martin now. In the first few days he was reacting to feeling out of his depth and trying to cope with the hostility of the others, imo.
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Old 30-11-2016, 11:49
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I'd really like to know what constitutes the 'nastiness' and 'nightmare' of which some of you speak. Is it because he had a sulk about carrying the water and moaned about the food? Really?
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Old 30-11-2016, 12:17
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Reality.
How to respond to someone who clearly hasn't read and comprehended a post and instead needs to carry on indulging in more negativity, melodrama, fantasy and vacuous insults.......sounds familiar. A clue, it's another name beginning with M

More "reality". Finding some way to not need the constant use of arrogance and insults against FM's would be a good place to start discovering some of the pleasing benefits of reality.
Self help, just as Martin's done, for that extra appeal.
If you're referring to me, which I know you are, then you're not looking very good in all of this are you? Shame you've chosen to ignore my civilised post above to you. This just shows that you aren't capable of conversing polite!ly with somebody who holds a different opinion to you...your problem, not mine. Oh I get I'm on ignore...making you look more childish but as you won't see this, you can carry on having digs at me without having the balls to address me directly
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