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Why are the Cliftons unpopular?
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aggs
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Domestos:
“Don't you mean agreeing? Surely that is not an issue.”

When does 'agreement' become 'a clique' though - and does that depend on what side of the fence you inhabit ...
Dervlathedog
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Aedin:
“Now this I *do* agree with. Rights are universal and inalienable. We all have them (or ought to) and that means *everyone*

PS - appalled by Trump (and the rest of them) and voted against Brexit. So agree thoroughly with the poster who felt uncomfortable about taking against groups as a slippery slope to hate crime and prejudice. But, here's the thing, lots of people will have horrible prejudices and opinions. They're entitled to them. It's the *acting* on them that's the issue. Plus, not aware that the Clifdens are a recognised minority under the Equality Act. ”

True. I'm tabling a motion to the UN as we speak

Thank you for your robustness, by the way
Dervlathedog
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by aggs:
“I think 'The Cliftons' has just become a short of shorthand, in the same way people say 'The Judges'. No one would call Craig/Darcey/Len/Bruno anything other than disparate but for general moaning purposes they become an amorphous blob.

As far as 'The Cliftons' are concerned, I find the Kevin arm hilarious, the Joanne arm slightly annoying and the Karen arm fair enough provided I don't have to look at her feet.”

Then aggs, honestly, exempt yourself from my worries. They're my worries after all. If you don't feel or recognise them in your own feelings, then they're not you... I'd be frankly astonished if they were to be honest.

'The Judges' comment makes sense
Domestos
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by aggs:
“When does 'agreement' become 'a clique' though - and does that depend on what side of the fence you inhabit ... ”

I'm not in a clique with anyone but I agree there are cliques probably on both sides of the fence. Threads are littered with posters agreeing with each other. I don't see that as an issue or even strange unless they are specifically attacking one poster. But yes you are right that it could look different depending on which side you inhabit.
Ann_Dancer
01-12-2016
As I was saying to my friends Dervla Clifton, M Liza Clifton and Domestos Clifton, since when we we all members of a clique?

Ah, I said I wasn't going to post any more.

Signed A_D Clifton
MaggieMcGee
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Ellie1967:
“If a number of people all think a post is a bit rude/an unfunny 'joke' are they supposed to count how many other people have posted to say that before they post, to avoid creating a 'movement' against someone? If a number of people want to post about why they don't like the Cliftons on a thread titled 'why are the Cliftons unpopular?' I don't find it that curious and if I liked the Cliftons I probably just wouldn't read the thread.”

I have not expressed my thoughts on the matter well because your post has gone somewhere else with what I was thinking.
Domestos
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Ann_Dancer:
“As I was saying to my friends Dervla Clifton, M Liza Clifton and Domestos Clifton, since when we we all members of a clique?

Ah, I said I wasn't going to post any more.

Signed A_D Clifton”

My post of the day!
coppertop1
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Dervlathedog:
“Ahhh, I'm at fault.

Is that right? See the difference here is that I might consider this. Those two posts clearly tapped into something that's creating a reaction.

But while you're asking me to go introspective, would you do that too? Genuine question. Or rather, cards on the table, genuine invitation.”

Actually as you know I genuinely am open to different points of views when I don't have a fixed opinion and you didn't need to invite me.

Again Dervla somewhat patronising.

I do have decided opinions on the Cliftons, all of them already stated on this thread and all of them stated without needing to apologise to posters for any offence caused.

It really does seem to me that you do love your lame ducks but you also need to realise that those who don't share that view are not wrong per se.

We often agree on various differing things not just on this one, I genuinely have no idea why, however the Pro Clifton faction has decided to take this quite as far as they have.

Whether or not you were just musing and should never have put that thought down on the internet your brain did go to there, to equating people not liking the Cliftons ( for me Kevin , no, Jo at times I like her, just not when she dances sometimes, Karen no real feelings about her personally, but hate the way she dances) to persecution of the Roma. That really isn't at all equivalent and really isn't at all respectful of those who don't hold the same opinion as you
Also to Trump supporters which you know very well we do agree about. We also both know how wrong Trump supporters are, no question

I am really absolutely fed up of this now , genuinely I would ask the Clifton supporters to step back and think what they are actually posting.

This supposed to be a board where we discuss SCD , where we discuss the programme and its participants, not each other, which I have done lately and will stop right in one moment.

Both of us dislike injustice, as I know Moanylisa does, but when the dislike of injustice leads to causing such ill feeling because ultimately there is no real injustice being done, just a group of people who choose to act as a family on a programme where no other family has done so, being disliked as a family.

It absolutely doesn't need the genuine ill feeling caused by over the top support on view in this thread.
Bless You
01-12-2016
No idea but I really like them!
primer
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by coppertop1:
“I am really absolutely fed up of this now , genuinely I would ask the Clifton supporters to step back and think what they are actually posting.
”

any chance of reciprocating?

most of the 'support' i see has been offered as a response not a provocation.

and really, I find myself quite worried about you when i read your posts these days.
MaggieMcGee
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Dervlathedog:
“Well, I haven't thought it through so I doubt I'm being any more clear than usual. For whatever reason, it's not Kevin and Karen and Jo alone but 'the Cliftons' who seem to be targetable, and that makes it feel different... I mean, apart from the fact that they are family by birth and marriage, it would be hard to imagine a more disparate bunch of people than Kevin, Karen and Jo. But it feels from here that the perceived misdeeds or antics of one feeds into a response to the others too??

I really don't know. And as I said in one of my posts above, I'm not accusing anyone of any of that truly bad stuff. It's just the way my laggy old amygdala is responding to the undercurrents.

Memo to self: don't think aloud on forum”

I need that memo too!
edy10
01-12-2016
Quite surprised that this thread is still open tbh. It just keeps getting personal and more personal.
Dervlathedog
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by coppertop1:
“Actually as you know I genuinely am open to different points of views when I don't have a fixed opinion and you didn't need to invite me.

Again Dervla somewhat patronising.

I do have decided opinions on the Cliftons, all of them already stated on this thread and all of them stated without needing to apologise to posters for any offence caused.

It really does seem to me that you do love your lame ducks but you also need to realise that those who don't share that view are not wrong per se.

We often agree on various differing things not just on this one, I genuinely have no idea why, however the Pro Clifton faction has decided to take this quite as far as they have.

Whether or not you were just musing and should never have put that thought down on the internet your brain did go to there, to equating people not liking the Cliftons ( for me Kevin , no, Jo at times I like her, just not when she dances sometimes, Karen no real feelings about her personally, but hate the way she dances) to persecution of the Roma. That really isn't at all equivalent and really isn't at all respectful of those who don't hold the same opinion as you
Also to Trump supporters which you know very well we do agree about. We also both know how wrong Trump supporters are, no question

I am really absolutely fed up of this now , genuinely I would ask the Clifton supporters to step back and think what they are actually posting.

This supposed to be a board where we discuss SCD , where we discuss the programme and its participants, not each other, which I have done lately and will stop right in one moment.

Both of us dislike injustice, as I know Moanylisa does, but when the dislike of injustice leads to causing such ill feeling because ultimately there is no real injustice being done, just a group of people who choose to act as a family on a programme where no other family has done so, being disliked as a family.

It absolutely doesn't need the genuine ill feeling caused by over the top support on view in this thread.”

On the big things that matter, I know we agree. I know that.

Enough said!
sofakat
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Moany Liza:
“I have as much right as anyone else does on this forum. We are all equal, are we not?

If nobody has the "rights to challenge anyone's opinion" then why are you here challenging mine? Or is it just specifically me that you think should not have that right?

You see. Either we all have the same rights or we all have none.”

You've missed the point. You do when it suits you. Work it out yourself. Nothing to do with me. Not my issue.

Best of luck with that.
Moany Liza
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by sofakat:
“You've missed the point. You do when it suits you. Work it out yourself. Nothing to do with me. Not my issue.

Best of luck with that.”

I missed nothing. Your message came across loud and clear.
Dervlathedog
01-12-2016
Yep, in the words of the great Solomon Burke, 'One of us is chained, none of us are free'

(Pretty sure this is the fiftieth time I've posted that song in various places on DS. What can I say? I stop listening to it, somehow I go right back to the beginning again)

ETA Suddenly nervous about disproportion again... I just love the guy and this song. The way he gets it
Fuchsia Groan
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Dervlathedog:
“Yep, in the words of the great Solomon Burke, 'One of us is chained, none of us are free'

(Pretty sure this is the fiftieth time I've posted that song in various places on DS. What can I say? I stop listening to it, somehow I go right back to the beginning again)

ETA Suddenly nervous about disproportion again... I just love the guy and this song. The way he gets it”

You're perfectly free to post what you want. Who's to judge what's disproportionate or not? Anyway, you wouldn't be you if the reader didn't need to pause occasionally with a very large question mark poised carefully above their head.
Dervlathedog
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Fuchsia Groan:
“You're perfectly free to post what you want. Who's to judge what's disproportionate or not? Anyway, you wouldn't be you if the reader didn't need to pause occasionally with a very large question mark poised carefully above their head. ”

You made me check, and yes, there it is. I have a balloooooon!!
Fuchsia Groan
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Dervlathedog:
“You made me check, and yes, there it is. I have a balloooooon!!
”

I shouldn't worry about it. It's when you proceed with the dogmatic certainty of a sleepwalker - much as Adolf H professed to do - that you're in trouble.
shrinkingviolet
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by megashopper:
“Five syllables. Anachronistic. There are just some things in life that do not belong together. Milk in peppermint tea, custard on chips, porridge on roast chicken, salt on cornflakes. There is just something plainly wrong here. When I look at Kevin and Karen, I just think, that is just not right.

Meg”

Jeez...that's mean, even for this board. 😔
Muggsy
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Fuchsia Groan:
“I shouldn't worry about it. It's when you proceed with the dogmatic certainty of a sleepwalker - much as Adolf H professed to do - that you're in trouble.”

Somebody open the bubbly!

Godwin's Law has been invoked.
Fuchsia Groan
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Muggsy:
“Somebody open the bubbly!

Godwin's Law has been invoked.”

I aim to please.

I wondered who the first one would be.
megashopper
01-12-2016
| don't particularly like the Clifton's, but I can perfectly understand that other people do not hold the same opinion as me. In fact, life would be pretty boring if we all held the same opinions. There are some people on this thread and this board who seem to get seriously disturbed if anyone's opinion differs from theirs. Personally, I always thought that the sign of an adult was that they could deal with differences of opinion.
So here's a little motto I donate to the forum "LIVE AND LET LIVE" !
edy10
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by Dervlathedog:
“Is there a difference between disliking an individual for -- examples plucked at random -- having pink hair, being bolshy or crap at latin -- and picking on a family group?

I'm not asking you because you're 'guilty' of it, edy! Just that your post is the last one there and it made me think.

Disliking an identifiable family triggers more unease in me because it's on the way towards a thing that has more to do with hatred of a group. Like disliking the Roma, for example.

Again, I'm NOT accusing you or anyone of that. It's just that individual/group thing has occurred to me and doesn't make me feel comfortable.

We need the DS version of West Side Story to break up the clannishness ”

Hatred of a group Wth Is it really THAT serious This is tv show for goodness sake !!!
coppertop1
01-12-2016
Originally Posted by edy10:
“Hatred of a group Wth Is it really THAT serious This is tv show for goodness sake !!!”

Absolutely!


Hitler has been mentioned as well!

Proportion what proportion ?

And I too absolutely fail to see despite reporting it why this thread is allowed to go on.

Anyone else who wants to report it feel free !
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