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Old 04-12-2016, 18:05
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I just think he was petty and childish, honestly complaining about martin sitting in a chair then putting a bloody blackboard with a drawing of larry on the chair to stop him sitting on it
bit like cutting off the nose to spite the face
that morning No one was able to sit on the chair because of that action

I did notice it hasnt been there since Wayne left so INM it was an action to make Martin still feel as though he still asnt good enough for them
Martin's nice and chirpy now he is out ..he has got to see who said what about him so I hope Wayne is enjoying feeling awkward in the same hotel. I agree with you on his being immature; Adam is already noted for his immaturity and Martin need not have bothered trying to get in with them with the banter. Lousy Larry can stop the waterworks now he's reunited with two of his "boys". Pathetic really if that is what Wayne, Joel and Adam aspire to..If Joel's going to convince us of his intelligence, he might need to think about the dumb company he keeps.
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:12
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Just when I think I've seen every puerile personal insult imaginable..........

If you or anyone else wishes to carry on with your forum rule breaking will you please try starting a thread on me and stop derailing this or any other thread.
Good luck!

In the meantime I will post as I see fit and save my human compassion for helping real victims, not the conscienceless perpetrators who create them and are perfectly content to do so.
Actually I was trying to give you some well meaning advice but I can see I was wasting my time. Best of luck to you with your career!
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:17
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[quote=vald;84788010]He bitched to Wayne and Adam. That doesn't mean they have to agree with him. They have got minds of their own.
He was as happy as Larry sitting in the boat fishing while Martin prattled on at the board.
So he didn't high five...big deal. I've never high fived anyone in my life. It's a young person's thing.
I don't go in for mind reading.[/QUOTE I gave my opinion as you did, which is allowed on a forum . Larry was anything but happy as Larry as you say, he looked plain fed up and not into the trial one bit.
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:37
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Being a therapist means that it's important that you are not manipulated by self-appointed victims or manipulators.
Just when you think the trolling can't get any worse. Being a therapist means no such thing!
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:48
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Just when you think the trolling can't get any worse. Being a therapist means no such thing!
Are you a therapist.
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:49
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Are you a therapist.
Are you?
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:52
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Unfortunately self-appointed victims do not want to change and without the will to change you can't help them. It suits them to blame everyone else for their woes.
Victim blaming - that sucks.
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:57
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Just when I think I've seen every puerile personal insult imaginable..........

If you or anyone else wishes to carry on with your forum rule breaking will you please try starting a thread on me and stop derailing this or any other thread.
Good luck!

In the meantime I will post as I see fit and save my human compassion for helping real victims, not the conscienceless perpetrators who create them and are perfectly content to do so.
Nobody's breaking any rules, Anne. You freely volunteered the information that you are a therapist, in order to back up your opinions, so there's nothing wrong with referring to it. In fact, it's very interesting to hear from someone of your professional standing.
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Old 04-12-2016, 18:59
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Martin's nice and chirpy now he is out ..he has got to see who said what about him so I hope Wayne is enjoying feeling awkward in the same hotel. I agree with you on his being immature; Adam is already noted for his immaturity and Martin need not have bothered trying to get in with them with the banter. Lousy Larry can stop the waterworks now he's reunited with two of his "boys". Pathetic really if that is what Wayne, Joel and Adam aspire to..If Joel's going to convince us of his intelligence, he might need to think about the dumb company he keeps.
I just wonder when their all out of there will some of the men who listened to Larry stop and think about him and how they were his followers to do his dirty work and feel ashamed... I hope so.
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Old 04-12-2016, 19:05
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Nobody's breaking any rules, Anne. You freely volunteered the information that you are a therapist, in order to back up your opinions, so there's nothing wrong with referring to it. In fact, it's very interesting to hear from someone of your professional standing.
Anne is a therapist?

I thought they were supposed to teach you how to be calm and relaxed- anger management- that sort of thing.

And yet, going by all the posts she's made, she is getting seriously, seriously worked up about this Larry/Wayne/Martin business.

Where do therapists go if they need therapy?

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Old 04-12-2016, 19:09
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I was for many years. Not everyone is suitable for therapy. I'm not saying Martin could not be helped but personally I'd probably not take him on. I could be wrong but he seems to relish seeing himself as a victim. Besides I doubt someone like him would seek help. People who enter therapy need to be well motivated.
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Old 04-12-2016, 19:15
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I was for many years. Not everyone is suitable for therapy. I'm not saying Martin could not be helped but personally I'd probably not take him on. I could be wrong but he seems to relish seeing himself as a victim. Besides I doubt someone like him would seek help. People who enter therapy need to be well motivated.
Two therapists in the same room....I think its our lucky day I teach adults and it's like me saying to a student "sorry but I can't teach you as I think you're going to cheat". My aim is to teach; my objectives are to set goals to pass their exams...thank goodness one of us is in the right profession
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Old 04-12-2016, 19:21
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By the way- to those that think Martin needs therapy- surely it is Larry that needs the therapy.

Martin has already self diagnosed his shortcomings- bullied as a kid, so tries too hard to be liked (by being a bit over the top) which therefore comes over as a bit false, which is why some people think he is insincere.

So he doesn't need to pay someone for six one hour sessions to tell him what he already knows.

On the other hand, Larry doesn't realise he has a problem (the need to be top dog), and looked up to, and the need to put others down to make himself feel good.

Larry is the one who needs six one hour sessions.
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Old 04-12-2016, 19:24
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Two therapists in the same room....I think its our lucky day I teach adults and it's like me saying to a student "sorry but I can't teach you as I think you're going to cheat". My aim is to teach; my objectives are to set goals to pass their exams...thank goodness one of us is in the right profession
I am not going to take someone's time and money if I don't feel I can help them. I'm sure there are some who would though...their choice.
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Old 04-12-2016, 20:32
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By the way- to those that think Martin needs therapy- surely it is Larry that needs the therapy.

Martin has already self diagnosed his shortcomings- bullied as a kid, so tries too hard to be liked (by being a bit over the top) which therefore comes over as a bit false, which is why some people think he is insincere.

So he doesn't need to pay someone for six one hour sessions to tell him what he already knows.

On the other hand, Larry doesn't realise he has a problem (the need to be top dog), and looked up to, and the need to put others down to make himself feel good.

Larry is the one who needs six one hour sessions.
WOOHOO well said, every word is so true
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Old 04-12-2016, 21:20
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There's a lot of drama Queens on this forum...
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Old 04-12-2016, 21:25
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There's a lot of drama Queens on this forum...
I'm shocked that this 'debate' wasn't locked long ago.
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Old 04-12-2016, 22:37
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There's a lot of drama Queens on this forum...
I can't believe this is still going on
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Old 04-12-2016, 22:38
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I can't believe this is still going on
No, it's all over. Nothing to see here.
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Old 04-12-2016, 22:49
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No, it's all over. Nothing to see here.
I guess people have to sleep!
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Old 04-12-2016, 22:53
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Gosh, we,re a varied bunch of talented individuals on here aren,t we? Teachers, therapist,s and Calam to keep the kids in line, we could start our own commune
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Old 04-12-2016, 23:46
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What is it with the self-elected mods on here? Unless your name appears with a DS logo, you're just another FM. Night to those I've debated with.
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Old 04-12-2016, 23:56
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What is it with the self-elected mods on here? Unless your name appears with a DS logo, you're just another FM. Night to those I've debated with.
Interesting terminology.
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Old 05-12-2016, 00:00
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Interesting terminology.

Not really seeings as its a forum but don't let that fact get in the way of a little dig will you.
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Old 05-12-2016, 00:11
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Not really seeings as its a forum but don't let that fact get in the way of a little dig will you.
I won't.
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