Originally Posted by joshua321:
“I wasn't being personal. You have to realise I also have a lot of experience of the mental health professions, from the other side, and I just say what I see, and it's not just me either.
For example, currently my nephew is sectioned on a psychiatric ward and one of the nurses (I think she is Spanish or South American) has taken very much against me when I have come to visit him. She treats the place like her personal fiefdom and feels extremely threatened when I strike up conversations with patients that actually treat them like human beings rather than dangerous lunatics. I brought some clothes for him that he left at my house and she decided to go off on a tirade about how they were a 'weird' type of clothes (Indian-style white linen outfit) and that I was making him worse by bringing them, and how he had been calm before I had arrived.
The way she spoke to me as a visitor was quite frankly appalling - sheer ignorant pig-headedness that I've only seen rivalled by social workers. The fact that she is looking after extremely vulnerable people is terrifying - I intend to complain but not until he gets out because I am worried she might take it out on him otherwise.
So I am sorry you took it personally but I do not hold a high opinion of your profession or mental health workers in general, though I am sure there are a minority who are genuinely moved by a desire to help people, as misguided as the way they are going about it may be.”
“I wasn't being personal. You have to realise I also have a lot of experience of the mental health professions, from the other side, and I just say what I see, and it's not just me either.
For example, currently my nephew is sectioned on a psychiatric ward and one of the nurses (I think she is Spanish or South American) has taken very much against me when I have come to visit him. She treats the place like her personal fiefdom and feels extremely threatened when I strike up conversations with patients that actually treat them like human beings rather than dangerous lunatics. I brought some clothes for him that he left at my house and she decided to go off on a tirade about how they were a 'weird' type of clothes (Indian-style white linen outfit) and that I was making him worse by bringing them, and how he had been calm before I had arrived.
The way she spoke to me as a visitor was quite frankly appalling - sheer ignorant pig-headedness that I've only seen rivalled by social workers. The fact that she is looking after extremely vulnerable people is terrifying - I intend to complain but not until he gets out because I am worried she might take it out on him otherwise.
So I am sorry you took it personally but I do not hold a high opinion of your profession or mental health workers in general, though I am sure there are a minority who are genuinely moved by a desire to help people, as misguided as the way they are going about it may be.”
I am sorry you have had negative experiences. I strongly resent your last sentence. I spend every day at work trying to help my patients, I volunteer at samaritans, I fundraise for SAMH, I am an advocate for my patients at tribunals and for you to call me 'misguided' IS a personal comment. I am sorry you have no respect for mental health workers but that's up to you, I wish you good health.




