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I still have a large selection of girlie mags in my flat. I was thinking today that if a woman lived with wanted me to get rid of them, I probably wouldn't. I'd keep them and let her go.
If it came down to a choice would you choose porn over your girlfriend? |
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Single men need to satisfy themselves physically because of prostate cancer. It's the most common form of cancer in men, and the third most common form of cancer in western society. It is important that the system is flushed out regularly, to reduce prostate cancer risk, either by yourself or as part of a loving relationship with a partner.
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Men who are very sexually active in their twenties and thirties are more likely to develop prostate cancer, especially if they masturbate frequently, according to a study of more than 800 men. The correlation is believed to be due to hormone level both effecting sex drive and prostate cancer risk.However the UK research team also found that frequent sexual activity in a man’s forties appears to have little effect and even small levels of activity in a man’s fifties could offer protection from the disease. Most of the differences were attributed to masturbation rather than sexual intercourse. https://www.sciencedaily.com/release...0126082343.htm |
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I think the moral of the story is that you want a girlfriend who is relatively open minded when it pertains porn, masterbation, sex. Possibly in that order
DAnswer = do not enter a relationship with a woman with a less enlightened attitude. |
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I'd keep them locked in the cellar, then I could look at my porn mags upstairs whenever I liked
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Single men need to satisfy themselves physically because of prostate cancer. It's the most common form of cancer in men, and the third most common form of cancer in western society. It is important that the system is flushed out regularly, to reduce prostate cancer risk, either by yourself or as part of a loving relationship with a partner. I see a poster above has pointed out the reverse correlation, but there seems to be no causative effect. |
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Almost every post on this thread presumes that a girlfriend would have a problem with porn collections
why would she? edit - actually reading back it seems to be men that think women would automatically have a probem despite several women saying they don't care |
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My husband and I both watch porn together and have done on our own. If anything it enhances our relationship. Any open minded person would be ok with it I'd have thought
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I'm another woman who doesn't care if my OH has a secret tug every now and then.
As long as it doesn't impact on our love life it really doesn't bother me and he knows this. |
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Almost every post on this thread presumes that a girlfriend would have a problem with porn collections
why would she? edit - actually reading back it seems to be men that think women would automatically have a probem despite several women saying they don't care ![]() I'd love to watch the look of sheer confusion on some men's faces when confronted with a woman who tells them it's ok to watch it .. |
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prefer mags over the real thing?..... how odd....
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I'd keep them locked in the cellar, then I could look at my porn mags upstairs whenever I liked
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Scan them and put them on your computer/laptop in a hidden drive.
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I'm another woman who doesn't care if my OH has a secret tug every now and then.
As long as it doesn't impact on our love life it really doesn't bother me and he knows this. What if it was over one of your female friends. Not literally of course. |
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So it doesnt have to be secret.
What if it was over one of your female friends. Not literally of course. |
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Then he'd be an idiot for telling her that.
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I don't have or want a porn collection, but if a new girlfriend started saying what I can or can't do then it would be goodbye. If we'd been together a while, well of course I'd take her thoughts into account more.
Back around 2000 when I was in my early 20s I had a girlfriend who got very upset when she discovered I'd been looking at porn online. She was crying at work over it. It made her feel insecure, she felt like she couldn't compete with these women in the looks department, that it was almost like cheating and a sign that I'd be interested in cheating on her. |
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I don't have or want a porn collection, but if a new girlfriend started saying what I can or can't do then it would be goodbye. If we'd been together a while, well of course I'd take her thoughts into account more.
Back around 2000 when I was in my early 20s I had a girlfriend who got very upset when she discovered I'd been looking at porn online. She was crying at work over it. It made her feel insecure, she felt like she couldn't compete with these women in the looks department, that it was almost like cheating and a sign that I'd be interested in cheating on her. |
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Dodged a bullet there.
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OP doesn't have a hedge
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Or join the 21st century and download your porn to a tiny USB stick. All free and in high quality (usually)
A former girlfriend didn't like porn so I copied it from my computer to a memory stick. She was happy, I was happy and it was hidden in plain sight with the backup usb sticks and installation CDs so no worries about things being hidden at the back of drawers!
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I have images of him pushing a USB stick into his pile of magazines and shouting 'download, download!".
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keep the porn, when you get older and you stop having sex you are going to need that
![]() I just have my Debbie Harry poster, I just say she was a genius musician
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keep the porn, when you get older and you stop having sex you are going to need that
![]() I just have my Debbie Harry poster, I just say she was a genius musician ![]() |
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The way she is now or when she was in blondie?
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This post has been severely lacking in attention!
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