I have a family member who is fiddling the system somehow and it's really winding me up.
She's due to have a baby any day now and she told me her partner earns £36,000 a year (bragging about all these expensive gifts he buys her) she works part time and is getting maternity allowance but still being allowed to claim income support on top, she's been given the £500 maternity grant and she also recieves DLA for having OCD. I'm guessing she's somehow claiming to be a single parent even though her and her partner live together. The most aggravating thing about it, is that all she has done for the past few months is complain to us all about how she can't afford such and such, that she's struggling financially.
I on the other hand had a baby this year, my partner is self-employed and due to personal circumstances hasn't been able to earn much at all. Because he works over a certain amount of hours though, we were not entitled to the maternity grant, me not entitled to any money, not entitled to anything and his wages have had to stretch to keep both me and him fed, clothed etc. the bills paid, his grandmothers care fees and everything we've had to buy for the baby. We truly have been struggling financially.
I'm not usually the kind of person to go around reporting others, however everytime this family member opens her mouth to either brag about what she's getting or to complain about struggling, the more I feel like doing so. 😡