Originally Posted by
sheepiefarm:
“What do you reckon Aaron's response would have been had it been the other way around and Gabby had posted a video of a naked Liv on the internet 
I seriously doubt he'd be taking any responsibility or "constructive" approach to Liv's behaviour but would be screaming blue murder at Bernice instead
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That is, of course, an hypothetical question! However, I've never tried to make the case that Aaron has proved an adequate guardian for Liv, merely that he isn't as useless and as vacuous as Bernice, who is an adult and a Mother twice over and should know better.
Aaron, at least, does love and care for his sister, Liv. Bernice gives every indication of not giving a fig about Gabby, and just regards her as a pain in the behind, when she gets into trouble. She takes no notice of, or gives no attention to, Gabby until some kind of problem arises, and then her response is pathetic and useless, as on this occasion. And what of her younger daughter, Diane? She seems to have lost her/forgotten about her completely.
Originally Posted by Glendarroch:
“Aaron's completely out of his depth. All he does us say ' don't do it again' and even that's less than half hearted. It's s almost like he can't t be bothered!”
I agree that Aaron is out of his depth. He has, however, made some sort of meaningful approach to dealing with Liv regarding the current incident.
He said to Liv 'What were you thinking of?', and told her that she 'of all people' should have known of the consequences of posting the video on the Internet. When Liv said that Gabby was a lightweight for not holding her drink, he told Liv that Gabby had had to receive hospital treatment as a consequence. Aaron knows that Liv has done wrong and has pointed it out to her very clearly, what he hasn't done is to impose an appropriate sanction, and that's his failing, on this occasion.
Bernice, on the other hand, has not taken any responsibility, has absolved Gabby of any blame and has heaped all the responsibility on Liv, followed by Aaron & Chas. Aaron has defended Liv against Bernice's accusations, and I would not blame him for that. Both youngsters are equally to blame. Bernice has almost set about Liv, wrenching her phone off her, Aaron has shown no hostility to Gabby.
What Gabby needs right now is love and support in the face of her Father's deteriorating condition. Ashley is out of the equation for this. Laurel, to her credit, has made a bit of an effort, but is too overwhelmed. Bernice should be picking up the responsibility and giving Gabby the love and support that she needs, and that doesn't mean letting her off the hook for everything either. Does Bernice even know that Gabby has been missing school? Let alone that she's been missing school to visit her Father in the day centre? She hasn't a clue what Gabby is going through and how this is affecting her mentally, or her behaviour. She's more intent is doing some more 'me, me, me' shopping and thinking of where to look for her next man.