I was thinking over some past relationships last night and remembered how one of my previous girlfriends said that she was immediately comfortable with me when we first met. Now at the time I took it as a good thing but no way is my mind not going to twist things around when I'm trying to get some sleep!
I remember her saying how she didn't feel that she had to impress me, to hide what she perceived to be her failings or to maintain an appearance of dignity. She was a very sweet girl and like I said, at the time I took it as a good thing but then I thought: was it because she never saw me as a threat? That she never thought I could do better than her? That no one else would be with me so she didn't have competition? God does the mind run around crazy land when you need to get some sleep.
Do you think that being comfortable with your partner, or them with you, could be a bad thing?
I remember her saying how she didn't feel that she had to impress me, to hide what she perceived to be her failings or to maintain an appearance of dignity. She was a very sweet girl and like I said, at the time I took it as a good thing but then I thought: was it because she never saw me as a threat? That she never thought I could do better than her? That no one else would be with me so she didn't have competition? God does the mind run around crazy land when you need to get some sleep.
Do you think that being comfortable with your partner, or them with you, could be a bad thing?





