Originally Posted by Eva_Coco_May:
“People grieve differently who are you to say what he should and should not be doing - his mother would've wanted him to do this it was planned from the starts of XF he would have an exclusive - his family would've all been there”
Exactly Eva. Everyone grieves in different ways and there is no right or wrong about what to do in this situation.
Louis has known for a while now that his mum might not make it and it could have been something they'd talked about and he made her a promise,
I'm not a fan or 1D or the song last night but I have so much respect for Louis as it was obvious to see (to anyone without a snidey agenda) that the kid was barely holding it together but he put on his brave face and got through the performance.
Remember series 2 of X Factor when Andy Abrahams mum died during the series? He flew back to Jamaica (IIRC) for her funeral ad still performed on Saturday. He was rightly praised for his maturity and strength but, in these more cynical times, he'd probably get slaughtered.
Gary Barlow was also praised when he performed at the Olympics a few days after his baby daughter was stillborn and I remember how poignant the lyrics to Rule The World sounded and how much the other Take That guys rallied round.
Well done to Louis for having the strength of character to fulfill his mums wishes and shame on anyone who thinks its ok to attack a young man in pain